Am i a bum

The girls that guys fawn over in my town are seen walking around carrying their coach bags, dressed in expensive clothes that are wayy to tight, and pile on the make-up. I have always preferred to dress modestly. I will wear a nice pair of jeans, a plain v-neck top, and throw on a little mascara. Im not unattractive, but im not your typical girly girl. Alot of people actually call me a tomboy. I can't bring myself to spend money on material things that will eventually either go out of style or get ruined in one way or another. I also don't like to show off a lot of my body, i just don't feel comfortable. But, my friends are always trying to dress me up and give me a "make-over" because they are really into clothes and appearance. They make me feel like im not good enough the way i am. They almost make me feel like i look like a bum.

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  • ruralfrights

    First off, though it is very hard to see at times, no one "makes" you feel one way orbthe other unless you give them that power. And to do so is human nature at times. Your uniqueness is what is so direly neededvthese days. Everyone wants yo go with the flow, but few stop to ask exactly where is the flow going? Be who you want to be by honoring and celebrating your life by living to thr fullest. May the force beveith you!....

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  • TieDiedSuperstar

    Listen, I'm 35 and the same as you. I don't fuss with my hair or put much effort into my clothes adn I never get laid. It's all a matter of how badly you want to get laid. You're a girl so you can manage relatively easily alone. I say stay the way you are and fuck all the guys... i mean... forget about them... you know what i mean.

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  • Look up the Mtv show "My Life As Liz" it's good and you remind me of her minus the psyco friends.
    Sorry and goodluck.

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  • Sounds like your town is infested with Hipsters or 2010s version of a Scene Kid. lol who cares? Just act like yourself.

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  • CindyWindy12

    Just be who u r n don't worry wat other pol think

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  • peterr

    I bet you suck a mean cock!!!

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  • Crudhouse

    Guys love girls that aren't into all that stuff. You've got to have good hygiene though. Keep your toes clean, most guys I know have foot fetishes

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  • proballer

    Look left, and then look right. If both times you were looking at your ass cheeks then yes you are a bum

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  • Piconano

    Don't worry about it. Even if all the guys in your town likes materialism, there are guys out there who like modest girls better. If guys aren't your concern, just be confident. You don't need all those expensive stuff to look pretty. You're ALREADY pretty. Because confidence is beautiful.

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  • so_damn_unpretty

    Clothes are suposed to express who you are.. buy and wear things you like and feel comfortable in! It doesnt matter if your friends like it, if your girly or not, its YOUR body so you can dress it up and show it off/cover up as you please. Be yourself.

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  • Be unique. Uniqueness is dying.
    I do watever to be different.

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  • annabee2113

    Wow u really sound like me all my friends are trying to do that me

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