Sounds awful. The, "didn't want to leave him hanging", bit rather confuses me, because that sounded rather torturous. Better you should leave some horny degenerate hanging than torture yourself masturbating for him to get his kicks. I dunno if you're completely straight or not, but it certainly appears that you're definitely not gay, maybe you were bi-curious at one point, but you're certainly not gay. Regardless you didn't owe him a damn thang! I don't care if it's a man, a woman or an alien from outer space you don't owe anyone anything! If you're not into to someone or something sexually don't just go along to be polite. What you did was bad for you, and your self respect as well as very codependent. There's nothing wrong with politely saying no, if some asshole is hurt of offended it's his damn problem, not yours. As long as you're not mean or rude about the matter it's best to say no.
No is a beautiful word; No is monosyllabic, and a complete sentence. Just say no, baby!
Yeah I was bi curious. No im 10000 percent straight. I have nothing against it but when I think about that moment I get a sick and uneasy feeling in my whole body. I regret it and I don't at the same time. Because now my mind is completely clear. I love women and women only now.
Regardless, as far as sex is concerned please don't ever be afraid to say no to anyone regarding anything sexual that you don't want to do. You always have the right to say no. Another person's disappointment and hurt feelings are infinitely insignificant compared to my right to decide what does and does not happen to my body. I don't owe anyone anything, and neither do you! Fuck the hurt feelings of someone who would expect you to do anything sexual for him or her that you don't want to do. I trust that you are not a selfish, controlling or manipulative person so please don't allow such people or your own guilty, but codependent feelings to control you. Accept in your mind that it's completely acceptable for anyone to reject you sexually for any reason, and then you will in turn accept and hopefully internalize my message. Maybe I've been a bit tenacious in my response to you, but I truly hope the best for you and your self-esteem and self respect. Please remember to always love and respect yourself.
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Sounds awful. The, "didn't want to leave him hanging", bit rather confuses me, because that sounded rather torturous. Better you should leave some horny degenerate hanging than torture yourself masturbating for him to get his kicks. I dunno if you're completely straight or not, but it certainly appears that you're definitely not gay, maybe you were bi-curious at one point, but you're certainly not gay. Regardless you didn't owe him a damn thang! I don't care if it's a man, a woman or an alien from outer space you don't owe anyone anything! If you're not into to someone or something sexually don't just go along to be polite. What you did was bad for you, and your self respect as well as very codependent. There's nothing wrong with politely saying no, if some asshole is hurt of offended it's his damn problem, not yours. As long as you're not mean or rude about the matter it's best to say no.
No is a beautiful word; No is monosyllabic, and a complete sentence. Just say no, baby!
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Yeah I was bi curious. No im 10000 percent straight. I have nothing against it but when I think about that moment I get a sick and uneasy feeling in my whole body. I regret it and I don't at the same time. Because now my mind is completely clear. I love women and women only now.
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Regardless, as far as sex is concerned please don't ever be afraid to say no to anyone regarding anything sexual that you don't want to do. You always have the right to say no. Another person's disappointment and hurt feelings are infinitely insignificant compared to my right to decide what does and does not happen to my body. I don't owe anyone anything, and neither do you! Fuck the hurt feelings of someone who would expect you to do anything sexual for him or her that you don't want to do. I trust that you are not a selfish, controlling or manipulative person so please don't allow such people or your own guilty, but codependent feelings to control you. Accept in your mind that it's completely acceptable for anyone to reject you sexually for any reason, and then you will in turn accept and hopefully internalize my message. Maybe I've been a bit tenacious in my response to you, but I truly hope the best for you and your self-esteem and self respect. Please remember to always love and respect yourself.
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