Believe it or not, there aren't many men like you. Rejection hurts a lot of other guys like you wont believe, causing them to react in various ways from annoying to dangerous. Persistence, stalking, angry outburst, rape, you name it. What you experienced were the different "precautions" we girls take to avoid problems with men who can't handle rejection (which is really interesting to observe, because it all depends on maturity and personality).
Girl A: She's a people pleaser from what it sounds like. Going by the actions she took, she probably assumed that you were devastated when she said no; she felt bad hurting your feelings. So to make you feel better, she list off reasons to keep you from going home sad, like a long version of, "It's not you! It's me, this, and that!" (Sadly, her rejecting men this way will give those crazy guys hope and put her in more bad situations, but that's her problem to overcome.)
Girl B: Typical immature girl reaction. Basically, she really doesn't want to further your feelings for her, so bitch mode is turned on to force you to lose interest. (This will cause her to lose a lot of male friends, but that's her problem.)
Girl C: She's overthinking everything and changing her mind often, and probably thought you were obsess with her even though you simply just wanted to resume the friendship. (Her overthinking and ready to call "Stalker!" is a bad sign. Avoid women like this, because you don't want to end up in court over rape, because she change her mind about the relationship between you two.)
All my rejections end badly, I'm confused
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Believe it or not, there aren't many men like you. Rejection hurts a lot of other guys like you wont believe, causing them to react in various ways from annoying to dangerous. Persistence, stalking, angry outburst, rape, you name it. What you experienced were the different "precautions" we girls take to avoid problems with men who can't handle rejection (which is really interesting to observe, because it all depends on maturity and personality).
Girl A: She's a people pleaser from what it sounds like. Going by the actions she took, she probably assumed that you were devastated when she said no; she felt bad hurting your feelings. So to make you feel better, she list off reasons to keep you from going home sad, like a long version of, "It's not you! It's me, this, and that!" (Sadly, her rejecting men this way will give those crazy guys hope and put her in more bad situations, but that's her problem to overcome.)
Girl B: Typical immature girl reaction. Basically, she really doesn't want to further your feelings for her, so bitch mode is turned on to force you to lose interest. (This will cause her to lose a lot of male friends, but that's her problem.)
Girl C: She's overthinking everything and changing her mind often, and probably thought you were obsess with her even though you simply just wanted to resume the friendship. (Her overthinking and ready to call "Stalker!" is a bad sign. Avoid women like this, because you don't want to end up in court over rape, because she change her mind about the relationship between you two.)
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Good analysis :D