We should just agree that people are complex and what makes one attracted ( and eventually date) a person differs from one to another. I have been attracted to gorgeous guys and dated them, some were not interesting because what they liked and what I liked differed but there are other people who I'm sure find them amazing. I've also dated guys that I was attracted first but then found them to be more interesting because I like to talk about social issues and they did too.
The kind of guy that I was strongly against were the one who were expecting me to change or trying to control my movements and the kind of friends I was going out with.
But I do understand what you are saying but I don't think that there is anyone who is really nice all the time. I take myself as example. In some relationship I was very nice and in others less. There are people who would say that I have been very bad to them and others who would say that they have been bad to me.
What I mean is that there is no way to understand to what we are really attracted to. Fristly it may be looks, then it may be personality but when you're with somebody for a long time you no longer know what has taken the relationship that far. It's the addition of a lot of little things.
All attractive qualities in a partner are just as shallow as each other
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We should just agree that people are complex and what makes one attracted ( and eventually date) a person differs from one to another. I have been attracted to gorgeous guys and dated them, some were not interesting because what they liked and what I liked differed but there are other people who I'm sure find them amazing. I've also dated guys that I was attracted first but then found them to be more interesting because I like to talk about social issues and they did too.
The kind of guy that I was strongly against were the one who were expecting me to change or trying to control my movements and the kind of friends I was going out with.
But I do understand what you are saying but I don't think that there is anyone who is really nice all the time. I take myself as example. In some relationship I was very nice and in others less. There are people who would say that I have been very bad to them and others who would say that they have been bad to me.
What I mean is that there is no way to understand to what we are really attracted to. Fristly it may be looks, then it may be personality but when you're with somebody for a long time you no longer know what has taken the relationship that far. It's the addition of a lot of little things.