Well I didn't say that you have no control over your intelligence/confidence, but yeah maybe I was little quick to say you only have as much control over them as you do your looks. Most people probably would be able to improve their intelligence and confidence more than they could their looks. Honestly though I do think it depends on the person. Some people could spend years working on those things and get nowhere, where as a simple makeover could drastically improve their looks.
Just because their unconfident in their decisions though, doesn't mean they're bad decisions. It's just that they unfortunately don't believe in themselves.
Nah I wouldn't get mad at anyone for not wanting to be with me, it's not their fault. No one (including me) can help who they're attracted to, and I've had to turn down people before. Well I think being nice is the only important quality for a person. For a partner though it's just unfortunate that we also need to be attracted to them.
All attractive qualities in a partner are just as shallow as each other
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Well I didn't say that you have no control over your intelligence/confidence, but yeah maybe I was little quick to say you only have as much control over them as you do your looks. Most people probably would be able to improve their intelligence and confidence more than they could their looks. Honestly though I do think it depends on the person. Some people could spend years working on those things and get nowhere, where as a simple makeover could drastically improve their looks.
Just because their unconfident in their decisions though, doesn't mean they're bad decisions. It's just that they unfortunately don't believe in themselves.
Nah I wouldn't get mad at anyone for not wanting to be with me, it's not their fault. No one (including me) can help who they're attracted to, and I've had to turn down people before. Well I think being nice is the only important quality for a person. For a partner though it's just unfortunate that we also need to be attracted to them.