Well I never said that I didn't judge people on their traits too, I was just ranting that some people think it's ok to judge others on certain traits but less so on others. I think they're all equally bad. I don't think we're all assholes for doing it though, since we can't help who we're attracted to. I was just trying to point out the unfortunate prejudice of human nature.
Some people can improve on those qualities, but for others it'll never realistically happen no matter how hard they try. I think they're often about as difficult to improve as looks. Some people can drastically improve their looks simply by wearing make-up, getting a new haircut, buying trendy clothes, even getting light surgery.
All attractive qualities in a partner are just as shallow as each other
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Well I never said that I didn't judge people on their traits too, I was just ranting that some people think it's ok to judge others on certain traits but less so on others. I think they're all equally bad. I don't think we're all assholes for doing it though, since we can't help who we're attracted to. I was just trying to point out the unfortunate prejudice of human nature.
Some people can improve on those qualities, but for others it'll never realistically happen no matter how hard they try. I think they're often about as difficult to improve as looks. Some people can drastically improve their looks simply by wearing make-up, getting a new haircut, buying trendy clothes, even getting light surgery.