But there are so many attractive qualities a person can have which they do have control over? Being hardworking, laidback, well-read, charitable, successful, ambitious, considerate, the list goes on and on. And also confidence is something that most people do have some control over, long-term, as well as being funny. I don't think any of that is shallow, it speaks volumes of someone's character and we all have control over that.
I guess maybe intelligent is legitimate but even then I do think most people have some control over this, depending on how you define intelligence. It's difficult to define it in a meaningful way.
All attractive qualities in a partner are just as shallow as each other
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But there are so many attractive qualities a person can have which they do have control over? Being hardworking, laidback, well-read, charitable, successful, ambitious, considerate, the list goes on and on. And also confidence is something that most people do have some control over, long-term, as well as being funny. I don't think any of that is shallow, it speaks volumes of someone's character and we all have control over that.
I guess maybe intelligent is legitimate but even then I do think most people have some control over this, depending on how you define intelligence. It's difficult to define it in a meaningful way.