Practically everyone cares about your bank account, unless they can afford not to, and are more interested in using their money to try to control others.
I don't see that as a bad thing though... Before I got married I earnt a higher than average salary and I wasn't interested in a man earning significantly less than me because I'd had a relationship in the past where they had been a total sponge and drained my finances (alcohol, gambling etc). I wanted someone on my level so I could have the best standard of living that I could afford without having to pay someone else's way.
Also for me I knew I wanted children and wanted to stay at home with them until they started school, so I needed someone who shared this goal and was able to provide for a family for a few years on his own income. Eventually I found him and so far, so good :)
If you're just talking about lazy people who want you to buy them expensive stuff and pay their way then nah, fuck that. They need to find themselves better careers and sort their own shit out before they start making demands like that of a man they've just met
All attractive qualities in a partner are just as shallow as each other
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They care about your bank balance tho.
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Practically everyone cares about your bank account, unless they can afford not to, and are more interested in using their money to try to control others.
I don't see that as a bad thing though... Before I got married I earnt a higher than average salary and I wasn't interested in a man earning significantly less than me because I'd had a relationship in the past where they had been a total sponge and drained my finances (alcohol, gambling etc). I wanted someone on my level so I could have the best standard of living that I could afford without having to pay someone else's way.
Also for me I knew I wanted children and wanted to stay at home with them until they started school, so I needed someone who shared this goal and was able to provide for a family for a few years on his own income. Eventually I found him and so far, so good :)
If you're just talking about lazy people who want you to buy them expensive stuff and pay their way then nah, fuck that. They need to find themselves better careers and sort their own shit out before they start making demands like that of a man they've just met