I think it's inappropriate to judge someone as shallow, because they happen to prefer an attractive, intelligent, and witty person instead of an ugly, stupid, and unamusing person. We all have a right like what we like.
Yeah that's fair enough. This is more directed at people who look down on others as shallow for judging guys on their looks, but will then judge those same guys on similar qualities.
But yeah, no one can force themselves to be attracted to someone they're not attracted to, no matter how nice they are, even if they tried. So it isn't their fault. I'm just trying to show how unfair human nature is that some of the nicest people are rejected because of other comparatively shallow traits.
You're free to believe whatever you want, but none of it is shallow! There's nothing shallow about having a personal preference. It is what it is. I just don't think that the rejection is really that sad, because if the nice people who are supposedly being rejected would go after other so called nice people in their own league they probably wouldn't get rejected so much.
I personally am not going to be interested in anyone I am not attracted to, nor anyone who isn't intelligent, isn't witty and I am not going to be interested in anyone who is significantly older than me. If someone is more than five to seven years older than me then I won't be interested, and to be completely honest I've never been interested in anyone more than one, or two years older than me. People can think that I'm shallow, or superficial all they want, but if they feel like sharing their opinions with me they better be ready to receive a hearty and sincere, "go fuck yourself", from me.
There are plenty of hot, smart and funny guys who wouldn't be interested in me, and I'm not the least bit bothered by it, because it's just a fact of life. It's okay if they aren't into me, because they have a right to their preferences.
No, but then I never said I did. When I was arguing that it's possibly shallow, I was talking about human nature in general, so including me. I certainly wasn't claiming that everyone but me is shallow, it was those kind of annoying people that inspired me to ask this question in the first place.
Yeah, I see what you're saying, but those annoying people really don't deserve the rent free space that they take up in your head, or anyone else's head. They're just jerks who want to judge other people, because either they're jealous, or they want to feel better about themselves.
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I think it's inappropriate to judge someone as shallow, because they happen to prefer an attractive, intelligent, and witty person instead of an ugly, stupid, and unamusing person. We all have a right like what we like.
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Buuuuut, what if the ugly, stupid, and unamusing person is NICE, EH, Rose?! Hahahaha
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Then I will try to be nice back, but I'm not gonna be disingenuous to myself.
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Of course, just kidding! :P
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*high fives*
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=^.~=
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I don't know what that is, but I give you thumbs up.
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Yeah that's fair enough. This is more directed at people who look down on others as shallow for judging guys on their looks, but will then judge those same guys on similar qualities.
But yeah, no one can force themselves to be attracted to someone they're not attracted to, no matter how nice they are, even if they tried. So it isn't their fault. I'm just trying to show how unfair human nature is that some of the nicest people are rejected because of other comparatively shallow traits.
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I can actually see where you're coming from with this.
I think it's silly to pretend that physical attraction isn't important ... Why would you kiss and have sex with someone you don't fancy lol
You're free to believe whatever you want, but none of it is shallow! There's nothing shallow about having a personal preference. It is what it is. I just don't think that the rejection is really that sad, because if the nice people who are supposedly being rejected would go after other so called nice people in their own league they probably wouldn't get rejected so much.
I personally am not going to be interested in anyone I am not attracted to, nor anyone who isn't intelligent, isn't witty and I am not going to be interested in anyone who is significantly older than me. If someone is more than five to seven years older than me then I won't be interested, and to be completely honest I've never been interested in anyone more than one, or two years older than me. People can think that I'm shallow, or superficial all they want, but if they feel like sharing their opinions with me they better be ready to receive a hearty and sincere, "go fuck yourself", from me.
There are plenty of hot, smart and funny guys who wouldn't be interested in me, and I'm not the least bit bothered by it, because it's just a fact of life. It's okay if they aren't into me, because they have a right to their preferences.
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I guess. I do think it's a shame though that they aren't the most highly prized.
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Yeah, but ask yourself this, do you want them?
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No, but then I never said I did. When I was arguing that it's possibly shallow, I was talking about human nature in general, so including me. I certainly wasn't claiming that everyone but me is shallow, it was those kind of annoying people that inspired me to ask this question in the first place.
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Yeah, I see what you're saying, but those annoying people really don't deserve the rent free space that they take up in your head, or anyone else's head. They're just jerks who want to judge other people, because either they're jealous, or they want to feel better about themselves.