Aggressive friends

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Am I just too sensitive or is this really weird?

Ok, so my friends (There are two of them) are....well...aggressive to me. They're always trying to push me down because they think it's funny when I fall. I agree, it is funny when I fall on my own, but sometimes they try to push me down. It's usually on grass, so it doesn't hurt, but a couple of times they tried to push me down on rocks. Also, they're always going on about how I fail. I mean, if I drop something, that's a funny fail, and I laugh with them. But sometimes I'll do something minor and they'll say I fail at life. What is that supposed to mean? And today was the worst. So, I was at my friends house, and they desided to have a snack. So, they were having cookies and I asked if I could have one. They said no, and started taunting me with food. At first I didn't mind because it was pretty funny, but then they started throwing food at me. Now I have applesause in my hair, hot sause in my eye (they didn't mean to get it in my eye, though, and they said they were sorry) and my white shirt has wet stains on it.

I mainly went to one of their houses because me and her were having some issues because of something that would take me FOREVER to explain and really has nothing to do with the situation. So, I told them about the pushing me down part and I said once they pushed me down and I scraped up my leg. Then they apoligized and said if they ever actually hurt me to just tell them. That's when they went to get a snack and started throwing food at me. Their apoligy has me wondering if I'm just being to sensitive.

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  • alv1592
    11 years ago | pl

    Doesn't sound normal to me. If their behaviour bothers you, either tell them or just don't hang out with them anymore.

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  • intellectuallychallengedmaybe
    11 years ago | pl

    they sound mean. its affecting your self-esteem which is why youre on this site talking about it. GET RID OF THEM. its not worth it. be your own friend.

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  • yasminou_15
    11 years ago | pl

    Is definitely not normal and the girls are not good friends!

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  • 800imawesome
    11 years ago | pl

    They sound like douche bags.

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  • marlasinger
    13 years ago | pl

    WOW. your friends are dicks. my friends are like that towards each other, I don't know how they handle it but it shows that they're just insecure narcissists. they're pushing you down mentally and physically because they hate themselves on the inside. I know it's hard to make new friends so next time they do it, BLOW UP on them. and make it clear that you're not fucking around. if they fuck with you again, you're going to punch them in the fucking face. which you will, damn it! I hate assholes like that.

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  • VforVendetta_5
    13 years ago | pl

    Sometimes people don't realize how they are acting. Other times they do and do not care. If it is the latter, find some new friends.

    I had a similar experience with two of my friends. First of all I am not an overly sensitive person. In fact I like it when me and my friends bust each others balls. Its good to be able to laugh at yourself. However, this particular case was different. For about two weeks I did not know why they were being such pricks to me. It was exactly how to described it. I would do little things and they would rip on me. It was not on and off. It was constant. At first I laughed, but I started to get more and more angry. I too wondered if I was being too sensitive.

    I have been spitefully made fun of in the past and I know the difference between play and real. I felt like they were being just straight up ass holes. One night I left so pissed off that I was ready to never hang out with them again. Which is a shame because they were cool guys up until this point.

    Now I am not an overly religious person, but I prayed that if I was not meant to be friends with these people that God(father, Allah whatever) gently remove them from my life. The next time I hung out with both of them together it was fine. They acted cool.

    I came to the conclusion that I was being a normal human being who enjoys the company of friends who treat me with respect and dignity. And I think you are the same way. If you really feel like someone(s) is being an ass remove yourself from the situation. There is nothing wrong with walking on. I was ready, but luckily everything worked out.

    Sorry my response was long winded. You touched a nerve.

    Hope your situation works out as well.

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    • XJayX
      13 years ago | pl

      Thank you so much, that's EXACTLY what I'm going through. Your comment actually helped a lot.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Idk you may be exagerating a bit

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  • lmn
    13 years ago | pl

    You need to drop em like a bad habit

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago | pl

    Are your friends 12? If not they need to grow up.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Great friends you have there >.< Theres a limit to it and they don't know when to stop. I don't think your too sensitive. They should stop cause that's being assholes towards you.

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