Age old question
Is it normal to not be able to tell if it s love or lust.
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Is it normal to not be able to tell if it s love or lust.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
it's ridiculous when people talk about finding true love and soul mates. in fact, love at first sight is the definition of lust. the truth is that there are millions of people who anyone can imagine themselves having a future together with and the person who they eventually end up getting involved with in a relationship comes down to luck and coincidence.
That's a good explanation.
What people perceive as love is just strong attraction (lust) doubled with matching personalities (affinity). I find that lots of people sugarcoat their lusty feelings by calling it love because of how negatively society can react towards sex. We've all heard such people sounding so indignated "Nooooo I don't want sex, I love her". Yeah right lol.