It's not unusual to be jealous of your partner for watching porn, but it's also not really reasonable to expect him to stop. If you don't want him to watch it or talk about it in front of you, ask him not to do that. If it's just a matter of what he's doing in his own time with his own mind, though, it's not really your business. You need to have adult boundaries in your relationship. Try to understand that what he fantasises about has nothing to do with his relationship with you.
I think most people in relationships fantasise about having sex with other people sometimes. It's normal to be attracted to other people while you're in a relationship. It's not unfaithful or inappropriate, it's just how most people's minds work. You don't have to listen to him talk about it, and you don't have to participate in it, but his masturbation isn't about you, it's about him.
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It's not unusual to be jealous of your partner for watching porn, but it's also not really reasonable to expect him to stop. If you don't want him to watch it or talk about it in front of you, ask him not to do that. If it's just a matter of what he's doing in his own time with his own mind, though, it's not really your business. You need to have adult boundaries in your relationship. Try to understand that what he fantasises about has nothing to do with his relationship with you.
I think most people in relationships fantasise about having sex with other people sometimes. It's normal to be attracted to other people while you're in a relationship. It's not unfaithful or inappropriate, it's just how most people's minds work. You don't have to listen to him talk about it, and you don't have to participate in it, but his masturbation isn't about you, it's about him.