After heartache, is it normal to still have hope there might b a chance for you two?

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The guy I love made it clear that he can’t be that person for me, because he’s waiting for someone else,

but there’s still something between us, and we both know that despite how he’s waiting for her.

She rejected him multiple times, and moved away and cut off contact with him.

I think he’ll eventually realize that things won’t work out with her. And if/when that happens some part of me still has some hope that things could maybe work out between us.

I’m not saying it would be a smart idea to wait for him, I’m just saying that some part of me can’t give up all hope when it comes to the chance of us being together.

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  • DIO
    4 years ago

    If you're waiting for him while he's waiting for someone else, it's just an endless wild goose chase. You have to break the circle. As long as he knows that you are available for him, he has nothing to lose so you have absolutely no leverage over him while he does over you. Just forget about him and live your life. If he really wants to be with you, he'll be back eventually.

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    You are chum, dregs whatever you want to call it.

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    Yeah it's normal. Love cannot be controlled.
    However you should move on. If it's meant to be it's meant to be and you'll end up together somehow. If you stick around waiting, maybe even pressuring him now he might end up with you once he feels ready for a rebound but then that'll be all you are to him too. Plus no one likes someone desperate just sitting around waiting for them honestly. But hope is what it is. You can't stop yourself from hoping just try to think about something else and do something productive with your time.

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  • Clunk42
    4 years ago

    I'd say you should just live your life and if he does get over it, it may or may not be too late.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Of course it's not a smart idea to wait for this dude. Maybe you have a fear of intimacy, and or a fear of committment? I think you should abandon hope for this person.

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