It's because on an animalistic level crying is weakness. You're letting people see that you've broken down. I don't see how you're going to trick your mind into seeing it as anything else.
On the plus side I don't think it's that bad for women, and people probably don't see it as badly as you do. You shouldn't hold in the tears when you're on your own, but do you think you can suck it up until you are on your own? If not, then so long as you're not breaking down over everything, the occasional cry around people isn't too bad.
Afraid to cry..
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It's because on an animalistic level crying is weakness. You're letting people see that you've broken down. I don't see how you're going to trick your mind into seeing it as anything else.
On the plus side I don't think it's that bad for women, and people probably don't see it as badly as you do. You shouldn't hold in the tears when you're on your own, but do you think you can suck it up until you are on your own? If not, then so long as you're not breaking down over everything, the occasional cry around people isn't too bad.