Advice please! I fell in love with my "married" best friend?

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  • sillygirl77
    8 years ago | pl

    he's not actually married and we don't know what kind of commitment he made, but it's still a bad idea... that I agree with.

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    • thegypsysailor
      8 years ago | pl

      You are right, of course that he isn't married, but when you have children with somebody, I'd hope that it is a form of commitment. There are enough single parent, bastard children in this world already.

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      • mayginski
        8 years ago | pl

        I'm not advocating that he abandon his children, but I think it's healthier for a child to have 2 parents who love them and are happy than it is for them to grow up in a home watching their parents fight constantly. I think every situation is different and hurtful in it's own way. I don't live with them, but I know her and the boys. Needless to say she doesn't like me. In this case their fights are only verbal other than her scratching our hitting him there's nothing physical. I just don't think kids need to see their parents fighting constantly, it sends the wrong message.

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        • davesumba
          8 years ago | pl

          I completely agree with ^

          Having two parents who are always fighting isn't the least bit healthy. That is going to be where their children learn how to act.

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      • sillygirl77
        8 years ago | pl

        you'd think...

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