There are no circumstances that give you the right to have an affair with this man, none at all. If he wants to be with you,then tell him he must divorce his wife and only then can you be together.
No matter how unhappy he says he is, he made a promise and a commitment to his family and a bit of slap and tickle with you was never part of that bargain.
You are right, of course that he isn't married, but when you have children with somebody, I'd hope that it is a form of commitment. There are enough single parent, bastard children in this world already.
I'm not advocating that he abandon his children, but I think it's healthier for a child to have 2 parents who love them and are happy than it is for them to grow up in a home watching their parents fight constantly. I think every situation is different and hurtful in it's own way. I don't live with them, but I know her and the boys. Needless to say she doesn't like me. In this case their fights are only verbal other than her scratching our hitting him there's nothing physical. I just don't think kids need to see their parents fighting constantly, it sends the wrong message.
Advice please! I fell in love with my "married" best friend?
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There are no circumstances that give you the right to have an affair with this man, none at all. If he wants to be with you,then tell him he must divorce his wife and only then can you be together.
No matter how unhappy he says he is, he made a promise and a commitment to his family and a bit of slap and tickle with you was never part of that bargain.
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he's not actually married and we don't know what kind of commitment he made, but it's still a bad idea... that I agree with.
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You are right, of course that he isn't married, but when you have children with somebody, I'd hope that it is a form of commitment. There are enough single parent, bastard children in this world already.
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I'm not advocating that he abandon his children, but I think it's healthier for a child to have 2 parents who love them and are happy than it is for them to grow up in a home watching their parents fight constantly. I think every situation is different and hurtful in it's own way. I don't live with them, but I know her and the boys. Needless to say she doesn't like me. In this case their fights are only verbal other than her scratching our hitting him there's nothing physical. I just don't think kids need to see their parents fighting constantly, it sends the wrong message.
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I completely agree with ^
Having two parents who are always fighting isn't the least bit healthy. That is going to be where their children learn how to act.
you'd think...