Advice...my 16 year old cousin wants to have sex with me!

My cousin is a hot 16 year old and I'm 25 every year her and my cousins come to my mother's house for an entire week. My cousin has a petite body and big tits. Her tits aren't that big but on her frame they look big. she has the cutest face that makes you think, "when she grows up she is going to be a Bombshell," O and She's a virgin. Here's how I found all this out.
It started 2 years ago when she was 14. she and 3 of my smaller cousins came down to my mother's house to stay for the week. She gave me a ton of attention. She would come up and tell me that her friends said they think "I'm sexy." Another day on the way to the bathroom she caught me coming out of the bathroom wearing nothing but a towel and started to stare at me. On a different day she wore a t-shirt with no bra and played with a boobs in front of me. She rubbed them right in front of me while no one was looking.
She slept in the guess room of my mother's house and on occasion she would leave the light's on and I would walk into the room and turn them off. The next day I told her what I did, she replied, "what happen if I was naked?" I ignored what she said and told her, "that wasn't on my mind." The day after she left she posted a Q and A survey on my Facebook wall. In it were her own answers about how much she liked my butt and how much she thought I was cute. I didn't answer it because I didn't know how to respond The next year she continued with same amount of attention.
This year she is turning 16 and the legal age of consent is 16 in my state (Georgia.) Every time both of our families meet, she asks me, "Do you have a girl friend," and tells me that she's a virgin. I have no problems with getting woman but I've never had sex with a virgin. keep in mind that she is not my cousin by blood. she is married into my family. Should I do it? She will be down here by June 2013. If you guys give me good advice I'll tell you my decision and what went on.

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  • This may be late, and if it is I wanna hear what happened!! But take this from me: I have a cousin, also married into the family, but by my recently married grandmother (yes, my grandmother recently got re-married) and my cousin is drop-dead gorgeous, with an amazing rack. When we first met, I could tell she thought I was hot, but I played it off, thinking it was "taboo" to flirt with your cousin. When she left to go back to her home, on the other side of the country, might I add, I kept thinking about her. I was sort of obsessing, but I managed to keep it out of my head. Ive only seen her once since then, and was too nervous to do much with her, but we made out and she rubbed me through my shorts. Kind of kickin my own ass now, because I have no idea if I'll see her again, that part of the family and ours isn't very close... If you want to, do it. Dont be regretting this for years, ya know? Maybe have a few drinks before, as a scapegoat, but just be careful about it. Make it so that the only way your family will find out is if she tells, and make sure she won't.
    Hope that helps, sorry it's late. But tell us the details if you did! Haha

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  • i know its super super late at this point, but u kinda gotta say whats happened now!

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  • It's not society but your family that would be the problem. What would her parents say if they found out? or your parents? What if her parents are quite conservative and kick her out and she wants to live with you and marry you and have your babies?

    Remember, she's 16. She probably wants more than you may be willing to give.

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    • Let's not be too far fetched here. Lots of people have had sex for the first time and not been attached. I, personally, didn't fall in love with the first girl I had sex with. Besides, she has been flirting with me for the past 2 years and no one in the family has caught on yet. I already told her I was talking and seeing other women. Thanks for your foresight, but i need logical explanations that doesn't involve paranoia.

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      • Yes but you're a man. Women seem to be much more prone to falling in love with the person they have sex with than men are, plus remember that she's been interested in you for two years now. You think all of that is 100% "i want to have sex once with this person"?

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        • Yes woman are more prone to falling in love the more they have sex with a person. I've researched this many times and a lot of woman have had sex with guys and not fall in love. There are many woman who have had sex with a guy for the first time and not fallen in love. Try looking it up for your self and you'll see. I don't plan to hurt her in anyway.

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          • Ok that still doesn't change the fact that she's been mooning over you for two years, you really think she's not gonna get attached? you really think no one in your family's going to find out? you think you guys can have sex once then pretend it never happened?

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            • First off, I'd like to say that I do not represent the guys that you have met in your life. I feel very bad about what ever happened to you. Like I said before I don't plan to hurt her in anyway. I think for both of our sakes it would be great if both of us acted like it never happened and so far I think that we are doing a great job of not let the family know that she's been flirting with me. As for being attached to me, she already is and it's been going on for over 2 years now.

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  • I've read many of the other articles like mine and many people have done it, even if they were blood related or not. Please give me your honest answer minus what society thinks and I'll try my best to tell you what happened when June rolls around.

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  • Coding very bad.

    Need time to decipher.

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  • The legal aspect's not the problem here. You'll be doing great harm to your family if you "do it" with her.

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