Adults and teens

i dont know if its normal or not but i am ONLY attracted to wayyyy older guys then me n always have been. i dunno y.

if im attracted i let him know n he ether runs hahaha or thinks about it n then runs :(

a few times when i wuz younger one guy who wuz a friend of my dads and i hugged and cuddled a little but that wuz it. is that so wrong? he def "wanted" to kiss me n i totaly did but we neva did.

now im older but guyz im attracted to r still afraid or MARRIED! haha

I think men in their 30's should be married to a woman in her 30s not some kid in high school. It is scientifically proven that teenagers are in fact still children and are not mentally or physically mature yet. I know that when I was a teenager I was very stupid and could not make adult decisions now maybe other teens are capable but like the saying goes "when in rome do what the romans do" It is not part of the age we live in to do the same things they did when America first became a country.

Children should be able to be children for as long as the law allows.

If you are not an adult why are you on this website? Do you not read you fucking twit? Age is not just a number and that is like saying let them fuck a 5 year old since the five year old wanted it. You must understand why the law is their to begin with.

A 15 year old as mature as they think they may be can be more easily persuaded/manipulated by an adult of 30 years of age. A 30 year old has lived longer and while the 15 year old might be smart the 30 year old has a lot more life experience.

So even if the child is very intelligent might still fall for the adults trick. So a 15 year old can not fully consent to an adult and having sex with them. Its like saying if a 15 year old is being fucked by their mom its ok if they both like it right?

No since the child already has faith in the parent and expects them to protect them. So if mommy says why wont you fuck me don't you love me? The child is going to say yes to bend to mommies wishes and not hurt her feelings. SO NO NOT NORMAL AND IF YOU ARE A MINOR GET OFF! FUCK LEARN TO READ THE FUCKING RULES!

N y can't day find ppl their own age?... There's probably sumthin wrong w/ da old guy n da girl probably thinks she's all grown up when she's not sooooooo she's dumb

I was sexually involved with men in their 20's exclusively from the time I was 13. Older men were all I was attracted to. I found teenage boys to be disgusting.

Many other girls I knew in middle school and high school had a thing for older men, and sought them out for sexual encounters. It is more common than people think.

Ew

girls mature way faster than guys , so its only natural that they will be attracted and connect better to older guys ... and since time memorial we have been marring older guys and having childern because thats how nature created us.

Im not suggesting its ok for perverts to just go have sex with every young girl willing , but if the girl and guy love eachother or willing to marry then it should definatly be permited.

my grandmother gave birth when she was 14 to a husband 20 years her seniour , they still live together happily and had 6 kids, and still found time to get rich! without any wrong deed done to another ... they both have exceptionally moral characters.

Look I really felt the same way as you, but that age difference does matter.

For examlpe I'm 19 and I like a guy who is 26 and he likes me back but the more I get to know him I realise that because of our ages we want completly different things and have completly different expectations.

Also girls I have know with similar realationships to the one you talked about have been in a worse position after not better, usually these mean are very insecure hence they want to be with someone who cannot really challenge them.

Iiiiiiiiiii changed my mind.
I'm only about two years older, but I completely see how this is just... no.

It's not weird for a younger person to be attracted to someone much older. And hey, sometimes, depending on the other person, it's not so weird for someone old to be attracted to someone younger.

But acting on it, when the other person is so young, is just wrong.

There are laws for reasons. Reasons when you're underage you don't get. But once you're older, and think back, you're like "ohh... maybe I WASN'T as mature as I thought."

I know a lot more now, enough to know not to do anything stupid with someone way older than me, but I still have a ways to go. No matter how mature you are, there are just things you don't understand until you get older.

Goodness, it feels nice to learn from mistakes.

Horse shit, no, 15 year old's can seem to be that mature, but think about where you were at 15. By your 30's you should definitely know better.. You would have to have some serious problems with your own sex life to even consider it.

A person shouldn't go out with an other person who is so much younger that person A remembers the years fairly well that person B was born and raised in

Nothing wrong with it and it's perfectly normal I think. The law is a little paranoid and prudish and the legal age should be 16, and all statutory rape cases should be judged one by one, according to the individual circumstances. No one who has consentual sex with a PUBESCENT girl, whatever age, should be treated the same or almost the same as a violent rapist. But you're not even talking about sex, just an emotional realationship, so yeah, it's fine.

knock yourself out.

When I was 41 I lived with a 19yo girlfriend and it lasted about 3 years. It can cause a lot of problems. Age is a number, that's true, but the older person is far more advanced and experienced in life, whereas the younger person wants to do things their way, even though the older person knows it doesn't work that way. Problem really comes as the both age. It's difficult for them to be at the same place emotionally with such an age difference.