No, it's not normal to be a snowflake about people behaving as expected.
They look like a she. They scientifically are a she. Your brain automatically says She. It takes additional thoughts to adapt to they/them, and if they want you to then there's no harm in trying to adjust.
That being said, there is a fundamental difference between accidentally using your brains default instead of /they/them, and purposely refusing to use their preferred pronoun. This is something a lot of these people refuse to understand, and ironically makes them less understanding then the person who accidentally misgendered them.
Accidentally called "girl" at work she instead of them?
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No, it's not normal to be a snowflake about people behaving as expected.
They look like a she. They scientifically are a she. Your brain automatically says She. It takes additional thoughts to adapt to they/them, and if they want you to then there's no harm in trying to adjust.
That being said, there is a fundamental difference between accidentally using your brains default instead of /they/them, and purposely refusing to use their preferred pronoun. This is something a lot of these people refuse to understand, and ironically makes them less understanding then the person who accidentally misgendered them.