Abnormally horney?

Im naturally a sexual person. I'm also told I am attractive by several people so I can't figure out why my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me nearly as much as I want to have sex with him. On average, we have sex about every other day and sometimes I'll want it twice in a day but when I hit on him he won't go for it. Sometimes I worry that he still likes his ex gf and that I don't turn him on as much but several of my bf's friends have told me that on a scale, I'm a 9-10 and she was a 4. I'm blonde haired size:3 120 lbs and a 34C and his ex was a chunky, pale scene girl. I can't shake the suspicion that for whatever reason he may be more attracted to her than me, but it's starting to bother me that my bf won't even finger me now if I put his hand in my pants. We have amazing sex and I know he's not cheating because I live with him and there's no way he could get away with it so I don't get it. Am I unattractive to him? Am I too horney? What's going on?

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  • He may not be as sexually driven as you or want the relationship to be based off of sex and sexually driven things. Maybe he wants to talk to you so he knows you, not because of your looks. Maybe he needs a break from all of the sexual activity between you two. Men do need some time to get back in the mood. You can talk to him about it or just masterbate a lot.

    P.S. Scene girls are pretty and just because a person is a little chunky doesn't mean that they aren't beautiful, especially as a person, the description comparison made you seem a bit shallow. (Sorry, I know you are probably going to take that offensively, I'm just giving my honest opinion.)

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  • Dudes cant recover on quite the same scale as women; maybe its this. Try being a little exhibitionistic - if my woman was touching herself I'd at least dive in for an assist, try that!

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  • It's just your bf. I had the same trouble with my ex. You'll either have to deal with him having less of a sex drive than you, or you guys will probably break it off in the future.

    I hope everything works out for you.

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