A threesome with my friend and girlfriend? help

So one of my friends and I always make sexual jokes and stuff about my girlfriend and I's relationship, or make sexual jokes with each other. It never got too serious, until one day we both ended up joking about a threesome. (Of course it was a joke. I kinda just laughed and went along with the joke.) We both swore to never tell my girlfriend about those sexual jokes in the conversations we have (I don't really expect her to understand in a way, she does know him but still...) but after that one joke I can't get it out of my head.

Is it normal to think about having a threesome with your best friend and your girlfriend?

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Based on 83 votes (70 yes)
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  • Gland

    Sure, but be ready to suck your friend's dick.

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  • Boojum

    These things can be complicated. Many people have the fantasy, but actually doing it can be a minefield.

    Whether there's a happy ending for all depends on things like the emotional maturity of the people involved, their existing relationships, the expectations for the event, the ground rules in place, and whether they can all be emotionally honest and open with each other.

    If your relationship with your girlfriend is primarily sexual, and there's not really any deep emotional attachment, then getting together for fun and games might be great. If there is a large emotional component to your relationship, then you need to seriously think about jealousy and what the threesome would be about as far as your concerned.

    And, of course, the first thing you should do once your certain you want to do it and could handle it is talk to her about it. Maybe in a casual, "Have you ever thought about...?" or even, "Have you ever fantasised about...?" sort of way.

    Be aware that many women have difficulty maintaining their emotional equilibrium in such situations, and it's not unknown for a woman to decide she's in love with the new guy, and dump the old guy (maybe at least partly because she doesn't respect him for wanting to share her, or because she thinks he'll then decide he has the right to screw around, or simply because the new guy is a lot better in the sack than the old). Like I said, it's an emotional minefield, and not something you should leap into if you really care about your girlfriend.

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    • Ellenna

      I've often wondered: are you as sensible and intelligent in real life as you are in this forum? Just wondering .....

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      • Boojum

        A list of the mistakes I've made in my lifetime would make my normal posts here look like models of concision.

        As for intelligence, who knows? We're all pretty damn stupid at times, aren't we? I can say that I'm not bright enough to maintain a fake forum persona, so I've never done that anywhere, and what I write on IIN is my honest opinion.

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      • somerandomtransboy

        I'd like to believe so...

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    • somerandomtransboy

      Thank you so much!

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  • bill1234

    You should fuck the hell out of them both and make sure that you fuck your friend very hard until he cums and then you blow your load in him to show him that you are the man

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  • Hornyandhung47

    Yes it's normal. I had a threesome with my wife(now ex-wife)and her best woman friend(not the reason for the divorce)it was great sex both my now ex and her woman friend have big Boobs,and I fucked them both till we were both totally spent

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  • Tealights

    Oohhh, he did a basic persuasion tactic.

    Basically, he finds your girlfriend attractive, and really wants to have sex with her. However, either he failed to convince her to cheat on you or he was too loyal a friend to try, he did the consistency thing. Meaning if you bring something up enough, the person you're persuading may do it if that person is unaware of the constant mentioning of it.

    Have a serious talk about your friends feelings for your girl. If he likes her a lot, a threesome may not be the best thing to do.

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  • JustinAnderson

    Its not a good idea ...

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    As much as I believe that people are free to do what they want sexually, I can no longer say "go for it" when it comes to threesomes. Every couple I knew that let their boyfriend or girlfriend sleep with someone else always lost that boyfriend or girlfriend to the other man or woman. They're left feeling dumbfounded, betrayed, and sad over it. I always wondered why it kept happening. I still don't know why, but I think part of it is that people put a lot of emotional significance into sex and when they feel that connection with the other person, they choose them instead. I could be wrong though.

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    • nikkiclaire

      It's probably because the girlfriend or boyfriend who agreed to it, feels like their significant other didn't care about them, and was willing to give them away.

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        That makes sense. Thanks.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Only live once yo. Do it, long as nobody's feelsy enough that they won't be able to joke about it later. Or 6 years later when it won't matter what happened you'll just have missed out.

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  • Biman458

    Yes I had sex with my best friend and his wife a couple of times. Plus my first wife and I were swingers so threesomes or swapping were normal to us.

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  • bill1234

    Make him your fucking bottom bitch boy

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  • WarriorGene

    Don't do it.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You really need to add a poll, dude.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Poll?

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  • It's normal, and there would be nothing wrong with talking to her about it.

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