Look, if this happened like you described, it is not normal. It shows that the father is a thoughtless, abusive person who took advantage of the trust of several people for his own gratification.
The writer can't change his behavior, he is like a drug addict or drunk- he is what he is. Think serenity prayer.
The impact on the daughter's self esteem and ability to form meaningful relationships after witnessing something like this, much less being raised by such a person would be enormous.
Forget changing him, but I encourage you to seek professional help or some kind of support. This is not something a daughter should deal with and it is not something that would not leave life long scars.
A terrible mess
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Look, if this happened like you described, it is not normal. It shows that the father is a thoughtless, abusive person who took advantage of the trust of several people for his own gratification.
The writer can't change his behavior, he is like a drug addict or drunk- he is what he is. Think serenity prayer.
The impact on the daughter's self esteem and ability to form meaningful relationships after witnessing something like this, much less being raised by such a person would be enormous.
Forget changing him, but I encourage you to seek professional help or some kind of support. This is not something a daughter should deal with and it is not something that would not leave life long scars.