A terrible mess

Sorry in advance for the details, I'll keep them at a minimum. Recently I was at a music festival with two of my female friends. Their parents only allowed them to go on the condition we brought along an adult to watch over them and ensure they didn't get wasted or do anything stupid. My father volunteered, and that was reassuring enough the girls were allowed to go. We shared a tent together. My parents are divorced, and I thought it a good opportunity for us to spend some time together. The festival lasted for two days, and my father had a very buddy like behaviour towards me, trying to cool in a very awkward way and flirting with my friends. He did exactly what he was supposed to prevent, allowing them to drink and taking advantage of them. The first night was bad enough. Everyone got drunk and things were out of control. The second night I got tired early, and went to sleep while the others were out. It took them forvever to get back, and when they did it was completely dark. The girls were very drunk, and I woke up by them giggeling and making alot of noise. There was alot of fumbeling around with clothes and sleeping bags, then silence. My father asked me if I was awake, and I said yes. Then he asked me if I wanted to see something cool, and upon that he lit a glow stick and tied it to a string in the ceiling. The girls were in a very submissive position under the light, and he was kneeling behind them. He wanted me to sit by his side and watch them in their exposed state. I thought the girls were joking, and that they'd hide themselves at any moment, but they were apperantly completely out of it. When I came up he asked me if they were hot, and when I agreed, told me he was going to have sex with them. Soon enough he had his penis out and was poking it against them. He was unable to get an erection at first, and had to mastrubate behind them. When it was ready, he asked them if they had ever done it before. None of them had gone all the way with a boy. He told them he was going to take their virginity, and that once he'd started, he wouldn't stop. They gave their agreement, and so he started putting it in. Both of them had reached the age of consent, but he is much, much older than them, and they were kind of out of it from alcohol. After some level of pain and discomfort, he finally managed to get it in and pulled his penis out to examine them. He found out that one of the hymens had been unhinged and was hanging from a flap, and that the other hymen had simply widened to accomodate him. He wanted me to comment and express my awe, but I couldn't really say a word, and so he just continued. The rest of the night he was holding their hips and thrusting at them, while they were hiding with their faces down at the matress. Due to alcohol he had a hard time finishing, but came in each of them and had oral sex with them in between. It was impossible not to watch, and so it was a relief when he leaned back moaning the last time. At this time iit was already morning, and he slapped them a couple of times and let them go to sleep.

The day after was really awkward. They were sore, embarrassed, and it was quite appearant they regretted the whole thing. They went out to pee, and my father was all buddy like with me, wanting some kind of response. The tent was taken down and everything was packed. On the way home he tried to assure them that such things was more or less normal and bound to happen at festivals, and that it had been too tempting for him once they had given themselves up. He said in a way they were lucky, since being drunk reduced the pain, and it was bound to happen anyway. He made sure to stop at a pharmacy to get them a morning after pill. They got each their hug before being dropped off at their parents, and afterwards he kept joking in the car, being very proud of what he did. Although they had been all passive, it was the best sex he had gotten in a while, and he was more than willing to do the same to other of my friends. It didn't help being reserved, so only when I expressed my anger did he tone it down. He kept repeating the same excuse, when girls get drunk, such things may happen. Well he was the one responsible for getting them drunk in the first place.

A couple of weeks has passed since then, and although I've gotten some distance to the whole thing, it still makes me angry. I can't get over how piggish it was, there's alot of details I could mention. He is an adult male, and took advantage of two teenage girls while they were drunk, and did it in front of his own son, expecting me to be impressed or something. He took advantage of their youth and naivity, and abused their parents trust. They're going to get boyfriends one day, and have to live with the fact that they lost it in a very impersonal and meaningless way, with a man much, much older. Yeah, they had sexual intercourse, but in no way can it be said they were being made love to. They're my friends, and I feel he has kind of tainted them for me. I wonder what his motivation might have been, getting off or trying to impress me or something? And how do I deal with it? Do I pretend it didn't happen to everyone involved, or should I demand an apology from him, both to the girls and myself? In a way I'm so shocked and angry I want him to feel some consequenses, but I'm not sure how I can accomplish that.

Demand an apology to everyone involved 12
Demand an apology but also that he sees a therapist 26
Ignore it 12
Tell the girls parents 49
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Comments ( 17 )
  • dom180

    Statutory rape. Do not ignore.

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  • shuggy-chan

    this is gross, UGH

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    • DangerousPotatoGuy

      and so wrong on so many levels

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  • Tityroi

    He: "I'm gonna put it in."

    They: "Okay."

    They had reached the age of consent, they gave him verbal approval and even lifted their butts toward him, so it can't be rape. But he totally took advantage of them in a debasing and crude way.

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    • Frozen_Stair

      That's actually not true (at least not in the US). Drunk people are legally not able to consent, and in the case that two people are drunk and having sex, the person who took the initiative can be charged for rape.

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      • Tityroi

        In that case, there would be many cases of drunk people having sex and later regretting it. I believe the law starts working when the other person is unable to consent, through alcohol or because of other reasons.

        The girls clearly gave their verbal and even physical consent, by positioning their bodies to receive him. You have no idea how sexual it was. He was holding on to them while leaning back, and there was a slapping sound every time he impacted their butts. They were keeping still with their faces down and just receiving him. He wouldn't have been able to do that with unwilling girls. They were also enjoying it to a various extent to various stages.

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    • RegGuy

      This.

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  • westoptic

    I'll take shit that never happened for 500.

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  • BurningCity1131

    Yeah so If you're as old as you seem you're just as disturbing as your dad because you could have stopped him and if I was those girls I would have told my parents. DO WHAT IS RIGHT!!!

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  • oldguy1

    Look, if this happened like you described, it is not normal. It shows that the father is a thoughtless, abusive person who took advantage of the trust of several people for his own gratification.

    The writer can't change his behavior, he is like a drug addict or drunk- he is what he is. Think serenity prayer.

    The impact on the daughter's self esteem and ability to form meaningful relationships after witnessing something like this, much less being raised by such a person would be enormous.

    Forget changing him, but I encourage you to seek professional help or some kind of support. This is not something a daughter should deal with and it is not something that would not leave life long scars.

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  • daisydukes

    I stopped reading after he said he was going to take their virginity. I dont know what went on but if he proceeded with the act you're in a tough situation. Do what's right.

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  • Alestar

    Young girls are normally shy when it comes to showing their assholes, so they must have been very horney or very drunk. Maybe both. Your father was a badass to take two virginities in this manner. Say, did he actually push their butts together side by side? If so, was there any height difference or marked contrast for the girls? How do they look? :p It must have felt good for him for a while there ... did he try to shove it right in, or did he go easy on them?

    Poor, poor girls though.

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    • Tityroi

      Yes, he pushed their butts together. One of them is a brunette, the other has black hair. They are about just as tall, but one of them is very lithe and scrawny. Yes, he felt pretty good for a while. He got it in by doing a combination of "poke-poke-push" until it was fully inside. If he had tried putting it right in I think they would have screamed, because they were uncomfortable enough.

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      • Alestar

        Did he rub their assholes with his thumb? Anything else he did? Sooo hot, really.

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        • Tityroi

          He did. The other thing he did, was alternating between putting it in each of them. So, inside one girl, pull it out, the next girl, pull it out, and the next again. He didn't make them queef, but he made their vaginas make a "Schlooooch!" sound. If you really have to know.

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  • SometimesNaive

    I cant vote for multiple things, so i say 3 & 4. That is so wrong on so many levels.

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    • Frozen_Stair

      How many of us realize that this person is very, very likely trolling?

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