A question for the ladies only, how soon do you know ?

I have heard it said that a woman knows within 2 minutes of meeting you whether she will sleep with you or not. Is this true for you (the average female)?

Is It Normal?
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  • No.

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  • This is just silly Glamour magazine bullshit.

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  • I generally know within the first two minutes if I'm interested in someone. It doesn't mean I'm in any hurry to sleep with them, but I've generally made up my mind about whether or not I'm attracted to them.

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  • Whoever said or wrote that, that's plain bullshit.
    You have to be pretty... simple minded to take stuff like this seriously.

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  • No. Our desire for intimacy derives from emotion & creating a bond, both of which requires "time" to actually develop.. (unless its a fling of course... Then yeah, 2 minutes to decide sounds about right, lol.)

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  • I do, but I know a lot of women who don't

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  • Being older I think this is true. I don't think the OP meant it as sleeping with someone that night or right away, but I've heard many women confirm this myself.

    Basically its a question of "do I wana see this guy naked, yes or no?"

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  • I have no idea... Maybe, if she's a fast and carefree sort of woman. One who isn't looking for long term commitments.

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  • I once walked up to a guy at the lake, on a boat, and pulled down his shorts and started sucking his dick... and within a couple of minutes he came down my throat.

    He then took me on a boat ride, we had sex, and he took me back to the lake shore. All this happened in about an hour. Of course, we had both been drinking alcohol... so, yeah... I guess a girl can make a decision within a couple of minutes if she's going to have sex with you.

    However, most girls don't... it takes more time, and much more interaction than 2 minutes. Good luck, and I hope you get lucky like the guy at the lake did with me.

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  • Depends. If it's a date thing (I don't date much) you think about it longer and don't want to mess up a future thing. But if its a party I look around the room and can tell which guys to have sex with right away.

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  • it is not normal for me - 2 minutes? no, it takes much longer for me.

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