A lot of people are speculating. so out with it!

I have a close friend who confided in me that he is bisexual. First of all this is not news to me. I, like a lot of his friends have pretty much known this for a couple of years. He has gotten involved with another man that he wants to spend his life with but is finding it very hard to tell friends and family. He tells me that he is tired of hiding. He wanted to know how I felt about it. Is it normal for a straight guy to advise a friend on his gay relationship? I told him to please come out. He and his significant other would be so much happier. I told him what matters most in this life is being with the person you love. And fuck what others think. But it is easy for me to say that. I'm not gay. I don't have to deal with the bullshit that my friend will face when people find out who he truly is. He is my friend. I hope I told him right.

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  • I know a few gays whose parents have issues with it but haven't really disowned them...even one came from a Mennonite family and his mother admitted he was born that way. One of my friends father is just straight up in denial and says he will outgrow the "gay stage" even though he is going to be 50 soon and has had the same partner for 15 years.

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  • If he was Bisexual it would be different, however your friend is gay. This means he cannot lie to himself or those around him. He likes what he likes and fuck everybody else.

    If he cannot be true to himself it will devour him and could lead to suicide!

    tell him not to be afraid, if he likes dick, he likes dick and should just go about enjoying it!

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    • Really...so if he doesn't tell everyone he's gay...he will kill himself...that's bull

      So why is bisexual so different?..should everyone know that? Many guys out there that are bi and their wife or girl friends don't know.

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      • Being bi is not a disease, neither is being Gay. Your "friend" or in this case "you" should stop lying to yourself and admit your sexual preference and fuck what anybody else thinks of it...enjoy your life you only get one chance at it!

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  • I've known gay people who were disowned, I can understand his trepidation.

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  • Tell him to be honest to the people around him.

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