A guy you knew commits suicide,what do you think about it?

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A guy you knew kills himself.
He happens to be one of these guys you and your friends often put through quite a lot of hard ship. You know. Jerking him around, stuff like that. How do you feel and what do you think about it?

We always knew there was something wrong with him. 5
I would have never expected anything like this. 31
Maybe we exaggerated a little 14
That's just what that loser deserved. 1
It was about time now I can finally try my luck with his girlfriend 2
Let's go pick on that other jackass we can't stand 1
Have you ever seen anything more pathetic? 3
He was our friend. God bless his blood depleted carcass. 11
Inspired poetic speech about the sacredness of all life 3
You keep egotripping and burst in a pretentious speech 0
You blame it on everyone but yourself. 6
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Comments ( 21 )
  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago | pl

    Your options are facetious and quite offensive.

    This is obviously a poll to upset and irritate people and not genuine thought provoking statements.

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    • Tehboss
      12 years ago

      It provokes something :D so good enough no?

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      • taciturn
        12 years ago

        Serial murder provokes something too. So no.

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        • Tehboss
          12 years ago

          and then society debates about the way we are becoming crazier so there :P

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  • Gena45
    12 years ago

    I have had friends kill themselves. It's a really hard thing to deal with. I started looking back on all the things I did that might have upset him. Then I can't stop thinking about all the mean things I said when I was angry that I didn't mean. I wonder if I could have stopped him by just being a better friend. You know, a lot of people don't realize how much it affects people when someone does something that like.

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    • Gena45
      12 years ago

      Something like that**

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  • doomiedoom
    12 years ago

    How To Save A Life by The Fray

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    • Gena45
      12 years ago

      It's a great song, but It's not about suicide though.

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      • doomiedoom
        12 years ago

        It is a great song. This would just be the song that would sum up how I feel if I ever lost someone to suicide :/ I didn't wanna write 'You Found Me' because then I'd just make myself more depressed >.>

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        • Gena45
          12 years ago

          "More" depressed? Are you already depressed?

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          • doomiedoom
            12 years ago

            eh? .__. I hadn't realized I put more depressed. No, I'm not depressed but both songs do have a rather depressing story behind them for me that has to do with an old friend.

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
    12 years ago

    I'd feel bad, but really it was his choice in the end.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    The poll was meant to spark debate about suicides.
    I just read a news about a seventeen year old who killed herself because she was getting relentlessly bullied, stalked, cyberbullied, and it got me kind of mad.
    So I wanted to know how and if people remember about all the stuff they do to make somebody else miserable and how they feel about it once they realize they contributed significantly pushing them down that path. If they do at all. I guess I achieved my goal.

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    • sleepingbeauty
      12 years ago

      Possibly your intention was for debate, but statements like 'loser', 'pathetic', 'jackass', 'depleted carcass' and 'about time' are offensive to me. Next time choose your words more carefully, my father committed suicide and it still hurts.

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      • taciturn
        12 years ago

        My brother tried to kill himself a year ago. These attempts at "humor" were pretty fucking disgusting.

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  • theytookthisone
    12 years ago

    Yea, you may think its a joking matter but you cannot imagine what he went through and what his family, friends/loved ones have to go through now after this tragedy. Nice way to look like a dickhead

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    I know no guys :D yet i was bullied once upon a time and it sucks it makes you feel like shit and like life is pointless so i would probably feel like shit :(

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  • Dragonborn
    12 years ago

    well i think that this is a sad story, i mean it's like you wanted for this kid to kill him self and now its done it doesn't bother you?

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    2 people I knew commited suicide in the past year. 1 of them I didn't think much of it and the second one I actually thought good riddance.

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    • Ibelievethis
      12 years ago

      How insensitive and horrible. I can't belive some of the evil people like yourself that I am sharing this planet with. Of course you have the right to say that you don't care, but a tiny bit of compassion (not only for the two people who had taken all that a human being can take but also for their families) would not do you any harm at all. I am curious as to whether you have an attachment disorder because the lack of compassion and warmth that is displayed in your post simply not normal.

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      • Darkoil
        12 years ago

        I haven't always been like this, it happened when I was studying physics and biology at college and I sort of had an epiphany that there is no higher power and all life is meaningless. In lets say 5000 years when humans no longer exist do you think anything that anyone has ever done anywhere will matter, nope. We are all just walking worm food, who cares if it's tomorrow or 50 years from now.

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