A guy has never started a conversation with me and asked for my number?

Does it mean I am unattractive if a guy has never started a conversation with me and then asked for my number?I am finding trouble finding dates for some reason and I don't know why. I am 21 but people sometimes tell me I look 15. I am 5'4 and weigh 125 lbs. Guys never start a conversation with me and/or ask for my number. I can't seem to find any men around me who are interested in me. What the hell is wrong with me and my non-existant dating life?

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  • Father23girls

    We don't all find dates by the Hollywood method. Some do some don't. You may be very attractive and the kind of girl a guy wants for a girlfriend. But as you say you look 15. That means if a guy likes the way you look and is attracted to you he may stay away because of mistaking you for jail bate. The "I saw her across a crowded room, went over and asked her for her number" method is not working for you. You need a better way of getting your info out to potential guys. You want them to know you are 21 and available to date. Join a social club, many churches have singles our young adult groups. There are young professional groups as well. Hiking, bicycling or athletic clubs. What's important is once you start to hang out with these groups make sure your info gets out there, mainly your age. Tell the women first if you can. A woman who thinks you are 15 will be very quick to tell a guy friend who is interested in you that you might be jail bait. Women disseminate info faster than guys. From there enjoy yourself in the group. Joy and laughter are very sexy, very attractive!

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  • bob7

    Probably you wear too much revealing clothes or too much non revealing clothes , both are not cool

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  • ThePurpleForest

    I feel you, although I'm a guy and 19 years old girls never come up to me. I often feel like something is wrong, hopefully we'll both move on from it and find somebody.

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome

    Are you from Nottinghamshire? It has become illegal for men to flirt with girls there.

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  • yjing

    Maybe if they say you look 15 might be something in your look i mean like how you dress and stuff? Maybe You could try change something more to find your own style and express more yourself

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  • Ratmanisback

    Maybe you smell. So take a shower every once in a while. Sounds like you stink.

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    • Trianka

      You have a weird temperament.

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  • anaesthetize

    Don't listen to this asshole ratmanisback.
    True love comes when you least expect it.. just live your life happily.
    Even I can date you :D :D

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