A girl always talk about her boyfriend and it is annoying

A girl always talk about her boyfriend. Now that wouldnt be so bad if she was like: Hey! Me and him are together! But she says that all the time! Her boyfriends name is not only a name for a person. And whenever we mention the name (not meaning the boyfriend) she laughs af and is all like: HAHAHAHAHAHA D-D-DID YOU HEAR THAT???? T-THEY SAID HIS NAME! HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAAA!!!!! Its super annoying. She always talk to me about him. I didn't sign any contract to be a wingman! And if i were to tell her: Okay i get it i dont give a fuck about your relation with him please talk with someone else. She will automatically think i am jealous. Trust me. I know her. So how can i stop her from talking about her boyfriend with me?

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  • Stupid, annoying, immature people do stupid, annoying, and immature things.

    You're not going to change her behaviour. Your only choice is to either learn to tune her crap out, or avoid spending time with her until she grows up or her wonderful boyfriend dumps her or does something else to burst her bubble.

    Next time she starts, tell her it's fucking boring and walk away.

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  • Just walk away or change the topic.

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  • Look. Girls talk about who they like all the time and fawn over them with other girls, and even close guy friends. Hey if you don't like it you could just make a joke of it every time or hint or mock her, like "someone is obsessed with YYYY" or "why don't you marry him already" or something like that.

    You could be a jerk about it and tell her seriously, and risk being accused of jealousy. If I'm uncomfortable with something, I usually just change the topic.

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  • I would just tell her to shut the fuck up. But then I'm not really that good with people.

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  • Yeah thats just how it is when you're in elementary school

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  • Change the topic when it gets that annoying. And it does. My feeling is, when they're with or talking to you, it should be about your time, not reviewing their time with the bf. I have many female friends, and most don't talk about their bf's excessively, but one does. And, he's still married with 2 kids. She's living in a fantasy world regarding this guy.

    All I hear is Mike this, Mike that, we're going to get married when the kids are older...And none of it will happen. He's not leaving his wife and kids for her, period. I've tried changing the topic to the house (I helped her move few years ago), her job, mutual people we know, etc, and still..She swings it to mentioning him somehow. Is kind of why I don't talk to her often. It's constant him him him. She's obsessed, but damn if I told her.

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  • Stop talking to her. She sounds awful.

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  • I’d avoid her. I had this one super annoying girl who like couldn’t say anything unless it involved “my ex” she sure had a lot of them, shocker.

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  • Don’t talk to her at all, or if you wanna be a jerk, I guess you could mock her?

    I’d totally suggest the first option though.

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    • Its not me that starts the conversation, its her! So it wont be fixed if i dont talk to her..

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      • Yeah then I guess you gotta find a way to make her avoid you, or tell her that she better watch out or else you’ll take her man. 😂

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        • That would be a kinda smooth and hilarious way to stop it but im am a guy and i am not gay ;>

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