4 years without sex! iin?

I haven't been in a relationship for over 4 years. Now. No sex sense then either. It sucks. I haven't really put myself out there in a long time. is it normal that I haven't been able to get sex? Should I maybe try harder or just keep waiting around for it to happen again eventually?

Is It Normal?
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  • You need to put yourself out there again. Continuing to wait it out might not help you.

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  • I haven't had sex in 22 years. I'm sure you'll be fine, there is such a thing as a vibrator.

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  • You and me both buddy, I have not had sex in years, I'm 26 , I just couldn't be arsed having it,

    I find it overrated anyway, the more my friends talk about how great it is, the more boring it sounds

    , well you when ever you do get it, i hope it was worth it

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  • Careful you don't turn into a desperate serial rapist with crazy eyes and a lifetime supple of KY Jelly.

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  • More information would be helpful plus some clarification of what you mean by "no sex sense then either."

    Waiting around will get you precisely nothing

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  • Are there no suitable partners where you live?

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  • Story of my life.
    If it's what you want, then you have to put yourself out there. The question is, what's holding you back?

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  • You could wait for it to happen or maybe try a little harder. Idk how you've gone 4 years, I seriously commend you. Do whatever makes you feel best though, but don't listen to showmedicks, rape is not cool.

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  • I done it for 22 years

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