3 years with him and no orgasm.

Well you could let me tri and give you one its worth a shot. Other then that you need to understand some girls cannot have orgasms until later on in life. So what im saying is this is normal. You should have been up front and honest with him from the start and told him flat out you just couldnt have one and that it was not his fault. He shouldnt have got butt hurt about it. Now your fucked because you cannot all of the sudden just stop being able to have them and you cannot expose the fact that youve been faking them this whole time. Basically keep faking them and hope for a real one some day.

It is entirely your fault because you have been faking the orgasm so that he has not had the chance to improve his ability to pleasure you.
You should have been honest from the beginning.

Its not his fault you have a vaj the size of a bucket

Tell him exactly what you like. He will get it right.

Many women cannot orgasm during intercourse with their lovers. I would say to try and get more oral sex, as this often times helps. If not, you can experience different toys and such.

I wish you luck.

I feel for you--this is a terrible predicament to be in. If you continue on with this, you will only damage your sexual health even more.

You should have never faked your orgasm. And, you should have tried to find out what the underlying problem was in the first few weeks of the relationship. But, I understand it can be pretty hard to talk about sex, at that early age and stage.

I would suggest that you have no choice but to tell him that you have been faking the orgasms all along. If you do miraculously start having orgasms in the future, then he'll know you were faking them it in the past. Undoubtedly, this realization is contributing to your inability to climax. Moreover, being able to climax in the first place requires emotional connection and trust. I don't know if your relationship will survive such an admission, but what other choice do you have? Cheat on him with someone else?

Otherwise, you probably need to see a sex therapist, as there is likely emotional damage owing to the length of time this has gone on, and the original source of the problem hasn't been identified. On the other hand, you might be able to climax with another man.

ya hes not trying hard enough to please you :)
although there is "stories" of females that just dont..