"what does this mean"

uhhhh.... i guess u should ask her

well thanks for your advise but still i have this to ask she asked me if i had feelings for her and when i said yes she told me to stop it i tried to take it normal but she close to me and i cant avoid it.therefor im in suspense of whether she likes me or not coz of the way she acts pliz help

Yes,this is normal behavior. She might have experienced some relationship problems in the past and doesn't want to repeat that experience agan. Though she likes you,she's afraid that you'll hurt her. She might also not be ready so wait patiently and stay by her side. Don't keep on trying to touch her,she might think that you just want to have sex with her. Keep your control and don't touch her unless she asks you to. Let her have her some time to think by leaving her alone. If she asks you what's wrong because you were "avoiding" her for a long time,just say you were busy. That will make her think why would she care about you avoiding her which will lead her to think about whether she really likes you. Then,wait for like a week or two and tell her your feelings,this time you should make sure she is in a comfortable position,like after a day at an amusement park or something. If she says yes,congratulations. If she says no,sorry. If she says no,you have to get over it and not make her feel guilty,making her feel guilty will end your friendship. Get a girlfriend,treat your girlfriend like a princess .blah blah blah. If your friend ever says something about your relationship,she DOES have feelings for you. Of course that will make you happy right? But don't break up immediately with your gifriend,of she ever hears about your relationship with your friend,she'll feel used. Take your time to tell her how you really feel in the least painful way. That way,when your friend hears thatabout you,she'll know that you won't hurt you.

I'm a girl by the way and this is what happened to me before and what my currnet bf did. Now he is thinking about stuff like getting married on a few years. Although this worked for me,this might not work for you. But still,GOOD LUCK!!

I think she does like you, but probably doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment. Maybe you should stop trying to make a move on her for a little while. Or ask her straight up how she feels about you, and that you want more if she feels the same way. Just ask her what's up?

she either only likes you as an intellectual and doesnt find you sexually attractive at all, likes leading you on, or thinks youre secretly gay. i'd ask her straight forward, or just avoid her. this is coming from a woman if that helps at all. good luck!

So she invites you to sleep over and you sleep in the same bed.. She knows you have feelings for her.. She seems to not have feelings for you.. I think you should ask her honestly what she wants from you or wait till a women starts posting on here.

Ask her if you can fuck her.

She's playing "that game", ya know the one where she's hard to get. I think games like this make girl wet, that's why they do this.

Well then maybe you should ask her directly. Tell her why you are so anxious. She sounds pretty much like a person who pretends to not care but really care deep inside. If she doesn't answer you and tells you to stop liking her again,maybe she really does like you. If she does answer you with a NO very firmly. Then jut give up on her and find another girl. You can stay friends with her but don't be too close when you get a girlfriend. Again GOOD LUCK!!!

she is Freaking using you!

she got you on a leach...why would she ask if you had feelings for her and for what?! it's not like she intended to say she had feelings for you as well

and sleeping in the same bed with a girl that is not your girlfriend, thats just playing games

either if she is interested in you she sounds like a girl with issues she havent been able to solve yet...

Sounds like she's playing dirty, bitchy, manipulative mind games. Just avoid her from here on out, she's using you to feel pretty.