" its just sex"

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I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months, the first day i met him i fell inlove with him, there is a age difference between us, so sometimes when he says things i get confused by the meaning of it. Lastnight we started talking about spicing things up in the bedroom just as having a 3 sum, and he said " its just sex" im not sure exactally what he meant by that. We did do somthing like a 3 sum before but it was more just my boyfriend watching me get F***ed, and my boyfriend ended up getting really jealous, and upset about it, and he also said " i just want you all to myself" and im very happy it just being me and him , it was was his idea about bringin another person in, so me and him fought back and forth for about a week, and decided not to do it again, but now he is saying he wants to have a 3sum with another guy and " its just sex" and i really dont know what exactally that suppose to mean, so if you would like to leave a comment please do, try and help me figure out what thats really suppose to mean.
Thanks.

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  • blueskies
    13 years ago | pl

    Your effed! Virgin/whore syndrome and he now can't look at you the same way, so his defense mechanism is your now his sexual plaything to get all his fantasies out of his system until he can find a more respectful girl to make his wife.

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago | pl

    He wants a dude

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  • meeskite
    13 years ago | pl

    I think that he just thinks that sex isn't a very big deal, a casual affair if you will, while you apparently think it is something more intimate. You should talk about this with him and both of you should express your feelings for each other and about sexual relations in general.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago | pl

    sounds like he wants to have sex with a guy.

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