I am in a similar situation. I often wish I had not married until the step child was out of the picture. But, the sad part, they never are. As long as the money is flowing, they never leave.
My advise, remember you are important and your life/happiness is important too. Your marriage might not work but it's better than a life time of the self absorbed, know it all ADULT step child. Any weakness and you will be run over like a train. This may not work out for you. Sorry! I feel your pain.
I have thought about my marriage may not work, but if it gets to a point that I cannot take it anymore and he chooses to stick up for her or give her money then I will have no choice. I told him i dont mind to be around her and I will be nice, but I will not trust her or give her money. We will see what happens...thanks for your reply
is it normal to not be able to stand your step daughter
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I am in a similar situation. I often wish I had not married until the step child was out of the picture. But, the sad part, they never are. As long as the money is flowing, they never leave.
My advise, remember you are important and your life/happiness is important too. Your marriage might not work but it's better than a life time of the self absorbed, know it all ADULT step child. Any weakness and you will be run over like a train. This may not work out for you. Sorry! I feel your pain.
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I have thought about my marriage may not work, but if it gets to a point that I cannot take it anymore and he chooses to stick up for her or give her money then I will have no choice. I told him i dont mind to be around her and I will be nice, but I will not trust her or give her money. We will see what happens...thanks for your reply