You are right in my husband is in major denial at this point and she just came in this weekend to visit my dying mother in law her Grandmother. She told her grandmother that I am the reason that her and her father do not get to have a relationship, so I set her and my husband very straigh on that subject. they can have a realtionship and I do not have to be a part of it...she lies about everything and my Mother in law has had it and is going to talk to her son about it and let him know what she thinks...it makes me so angry that she has to deal with this while on her death bed...she gave her grandaughter a ring of hers and she didn't even say it was pretty or thanked her at all. Everyone can't stand her and she cries and says she doesn't understand why nobody wants to be around her, but she only does that infront of her Dad and when her Dad isn't around she is a totally different person. If anyone tells her Dad (including me) that she did something then he asks her about and she lies. its hard for me to put her in her place when her Dad doesn't completely back me up but I am at the point that if she keeps pushing it I will just have to let her know what I think and what I expect to even think about having her in my life again....see, my family welcomed her in and at Christmas my parents treated her just like the other grand kids and gave her money and gifts. All she wants is the money and she doesn't care about anyone else but herself. She told her grandmother that her bills are 3000 per month and she works a 40 hour job at 12 an hour...she just makes stuff up and nothing ever makes sense and until my husband drives to see her without her knowing and checks it all out himself it will continue to be this way. I do love my husband and have put up with so much along with everyone else involved because he won't do what he suppose to, so at this point if he makes me choose I will choose to be happy. I cannot have her in my life..she sucks the life out of me and there would be no point, nor will I allow her to hurt my family...thanks for all your comments.
is it normal to not be able to stand your step daughter
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You are right in my husband is in major denial at this point and she just came in this weekend to visit my dying mother in law her Grandmother. She told her grandmother that I am the reason that her and her father do not get to have a relationship, so I set her and my husband very straigh on that subject. they can have a realtionship and I do not have to be a part of it...she lies about everything and my Mother in law has had it and is going to talk to her son about it and let him know what she thinks...it makes me so angry that she has to deal with this while on her death bed...she gave her grandaughter a ring of hers and she didn't even say it was pretty or thanked her at all. Everyone can't stand her and she cries and says she doesn't understand why nobody wants to be around her, but she only does that infront of her Dad and when her Dad isn't around she is a totally different person. If anyone tells her Dad (including me) that she did something then he asks her about and she lies. its hard for me to put her in her place when her Dad doesn't completely back me up but I am at the point that if she keeps pushing it I will just have to let her know what I think and what I expect to even think about having her in my life again....see, my family welcomed her in and at Christmas my parents treated her just like the other grand kids and gave her money and gifts. All she wants is the money and she doesn't care about anyone else but herself. She told her grandmother that her bills are 3000 per month and she works a 40 hour job at 12 an hour...she just makes stuff up and nothing ever makes sense and until my husband drives to see her without her knowing and checks it all out himself it will continue to be this way. I do love my husband and have put up with so much along with everyone else involved because he won't do what he suppose to, so at this point if he makes me choose I will choose to be happy. I cannot have her in my life..she sucks the life out of me and there would be no point, nor will I allow her to hurt my family...thanks for all your comments.