"is it normal that i don't date and still a virgin at 21"

For Goodness' sake, you're only 21! There's still a whole life ahead of you, you might want to start dating later on, things will still change for you. There's nothing wrong with you! Don't post stuff like this on this site and go out enjoy life!

I like how people are assuming your gender or sexual orientation.

Of course. It's worse to force yourself to do something that you're not interested in just to be part of the crowd as it were.

You might have some degree of asexuality, but I don't know you, so I can't say for sure. It's a possibility, however.

I'm 24 and I've never even fallen in love. So what? If you're happy in life as you are, why ruin it with a relationship? The worst thing you can do at your age, is believe that a man will make you happy, they won't. Only you can.

Just do what makes you happy. :)

perfecty cool

i only knew one girl like that..she was 22 and still a virgin no boy friend shes 27 now and has a really good govt job working on her second degree speakes 3 laguages..married at 25 and just had her first baby..so proud of her i want my daughter to be just like her..but most the other girls i knew growing ur were total sluts most was..as for guys well if ur a virgin at 21 hey thats ur life live it how u want to..but it's probley a social problem..like my brother is bad at talking to women and does not do good with big crowds..gets all tense and weird on us..so he was a virgin till he was like 19 and i had a bunch of strippers over for my party

Maybe you're too busy doing other more important things like focusing on school or work which can be good. A decent girl will cross your path sooner or later there's no rush don't be desperate because if you are you might end up with an STD slut

It dependes if ur great looking of a fat grenade

I think that that is perfectly normal, but unfortunately modern society has made it so that it seems to be "normal". I, even if I don't know you in any extent, am proud of you, and I think that you should continue on the way you're going until you've found the right guy/girl for you.

I think it isn't " normal" because most people are whores and screw at the age of 13 but that's why babies be Havin' babies and one in four people have herpes

I'm the exact same way. for me i don't go actively searching for a girl to be with, i believe if i just live my life, i will encounter a wonderful girl that i can't help but want to date. i'm not going to 'test out' girls here and there to see if i'm interested and get into meaningless sex.

I rather be alone in today's world of shady and deceiving people

I'm 18 an i'm still a virgin and proud i haven't had sex yet. don't get me wrong I think about it all the time about how it would feel inside me. To me it is a bit scary but i know i will overcome it one day. i'm just really into giving my bf head right now anyway and thats enough for me right now.

Wats is ur weight?

Your time will come oneday :)

i would say im the same kinda. I have no feeling of wanting to be in a relationship atall in my life and i have low sex drive its just something i dont find very interesting.