Did you post the other story about how you would like to see all rapist die in general? I feel bad for your story but my parents are horrible addict so I have seen horror in my life as well.
If you are ever going to live a happy and successful life, stop dwelling on stupid shit like this and just let it go. You can still be angry and look at society differently, to not is unavoidable. HOWEVER, to live every day in fear is extremely counter productive.
Yes, you are WRONG in not pursuing charges and you could have saved another victim after you if you did press charges. I know it is hard but the statue of limitations isn't up yet, contact the police and deal with this. It will help you get over the pain of it and finally get your life back. If not for yourself, do it for the girl you might save by getting that asshole off the streets.
Get your life back. If you live afraid in your house and never go out, you don't hurt or show him but you destroy your own life instead. It only hurts you, the best thing you can do is to show that fucker (I know you don't see him but THINK it instead) that you are better than him and you have moved on with your life.
Don't live in fear. If you do and give up opportunities, you will miss the best parts of your life and how will you feel when you are older. If you are dying when your old and grey, would you rather look back on an adventurous life or a life filled with reruns of crappy television?
"Is it normal that i am still affected by a rape 3 years ago?"
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Did you post the other story about how you would like to see all rapist die in general? I feel bad for your story but my parents are horrible addict so I have seen horror in my life as well.
If you are ever going to live a happy and successful life, stop dwelling on stupid shit like this and just let it go. You can still be angry and look at society differently, to not is unavoidable. HOWEVER, to live every day in fear is extremely counter productive.
Yes, you are WRONG in not pursuing charges and you could have saved another victim after you if you did press charges. I know it is hard but the statue of limitations isn't up yet, contact the police and deal with this. It will help you get over the pain of it and finally get your life back. If not for yourself, do it for the girl you might save by getting that asshole off the streets.
Get your life back. If you live afraid in your house and never go out, you don't hurt or show him but you destroy your own life instead. It only hurts you, the best thing you can do is to show that fucker (I know you don't see him but THINK it instead) that you are better than him and you have moved on with your life.
Don't live in fear. If you do and give up opportunities, you will miss the best parts of your life and how will you feel when you are older. If you are dying when your old and grey, would you rather look back on an adventurous life or a life filled with reruns of crappy television?