"is it normal that my husband doesn't like eating me out?"

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Well, My husband used to do it, sometimes because he knows it's a strong turn on for me... But he's always hated the taste of it... I mean, I keep it super clean and shave the whole thing, almost every single day, but idk... I guess I understand because I LOVE giving him blowjobs, but the thought of cum in my mouth makes me wanna puke... I'm slowly trying to get over this by swallowing a bit at a time and adjusting slowly to the taste and I keep hinting towards wanting him to try again (he hasn't in months) and it's been driving me nuts... Idk... Guess I'm actually just needing some serious advice, here... :/ What do I do? :/

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  • Keepsake
    7 years ago

    You can't force someone to like something they just don't like. You can talk to him about it, and maybe find something that'll prevent him from tasting it. Or just find some sex toys that give a better or similar feeling.

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    • violetkitten96
      7 years ago

      Yeah, I'm scared to talk to him about it because he's the kinda guy that puts up the tough guy act, but is super sensitive and I don't wanna feel like I'm making him do it... I don't wanna force anything, ever... It's just that I try to do things he loves that I hate and he puts no effort forward into doing the same for me... Idk... We've tried putting a vibrator... you know, down there and that's great, but it was super cheap and it's broken, now... I just miss it... :/ Other than that, the sex is beyond fantastic :)

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      • Angelandme
        7 years ago

        Smear his favorite ice cream on it

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      • MR.mr
        7 years ago

        he might not see it that way.
        Perhaps he sees himself as doing things for you all the time outside of the bedroom and what you do for him as returning the favor, idk.

        If he hates the taste maybe try miracle berries, they're berries the after eating them everything you eat for the next hour or so tastes super sweet, I've read people drink raw lemon juice after chewing on the berries and the raw lemon juice tasted like over sweetened lemonade.

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      • Murun
        7 years ago

        Any real man could fix a broken vibrator with things lying around the house.
        :o)

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      • Analandy
        6 years ago

        Buy another one. I can't imagine not eating my wife's pussy. Just smelling my fingers after finger fucking her makes me rock hard.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    What are you scared of? That's no basis for a relationship: he may be "super sensitive" but how about your feelings? You're trying your best to please him, but not being clear with him about what you'd like to happen.

    If it's only the taste that puts him off, change the taste: check out adult online stores, there are flavoured lubes, also many different types of vibrators, although personally I've never found a vibrator as good as a skilful tongue.

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    • violetkitten96
      7 years ago

      Both of us aren't really sure we want to try the flavored lubes thing quite yet but maybe sometime down the road... And Yeah, vibrators are great, especially when he directs the path, but not like a tongue :/

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  • Sarajeremy
    4 years ago

    Not normal. I would be very angry

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  • Rainbowbubbles
    6 years ago

    Yes its normal guys want you to do it to them and not return the favor

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  • Takuto
    6 years ago

    He might just not want to. I wouldn't.

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  • johnnyrealle
    6 years ago

    I would be glad to take his place. There is nothing better than going down on a clean woman and making her explode. Maybe you could talk him into a threesome and when he finishes with you and hasn't satisfied you I could show him what he is missing. He would realize how turned on you would get and after he saw you explode a few times he would want to be the guy to make it happen to you. I sure would give it an all out try and if nothing else we both would feel better than we ever have before. johnnyrealle I have have had a couple hit me up at hot mail before and now they are in heaven with each other. I woman deserves as many orgazms as she can get and you do also.

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  • Enjoyhavefun
    7 years ago

    I can't help but feel like he should give up on blow jobs if he doesn't do his part .But remember no one does anything at there best if it's not what they like doing. For me I love to for hours .My wife has to stop me and cut me off from it cause I will every day if I could.

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  • Sheertoez
    7 years ago

    I'm sorry for you, going down on a girls pussy is one of the most magnificent things!! The taste, the smell and parting wet lips with my big tongue,........ Oh my!!!!

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  • dereknor
    7 years ago

    oh, I'm sorry to hear that. EAting pussy is sooooo wonderful! Specially when it turns the woman on! While I can totally understand that you dont like swallowing.

    The best sex I had has been wiht hours of licking, and no sperm at all! :)

    But I cant really give you advice on this one. Just dont try to force yourself to like swallowing. Blowjobs can be great without swallowing, and its totally fine for women to not like it. No girl ever swallowed my sperm, and I dont want that

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  • Faceless
    7 years ago

    I don't particularly like eating out my boyfriends butt, but I do it to keep the spark going in our relationship.

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  • crygypsy
    7 years ago

    You might taste better if you didn't shave so much. I know it's kind of scary if you have been like a religious shaver but my bf says I taste better when I have a little hairs. Not crazy hairs but you know like enough to soak up the good musty smells. Also it's less prickly and he doesn't cut his tongue lol. also! Avoiding crappy foods/smoking and staying hydrated can help with your natural flavor. Maybe if your bf realizes you are taking good care of yourself and doing things to taste sweet for him, he will find the act more appealing. I know that when my bf eats really good and is getting good exercise and not smoking weed so much, he tastes better. It's also kind of a psychological thing. Make him feel like the hummingbird!

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  • mrmoomoo223
    7 years ago

    lol get a dog it worked for somebody else in this catgory of IIN's

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