Not to suggest you are disingenuous, but it doesn't seem like the whole story is being told, so I can't really advise. The details that are being left out I would think would be important somehow.
Assuming you are being totally honest in that you do not drink and rarely get high, and that night you were totally lucid, (btw I believe you on all of this, pretty much)and reading through the comments, I can only imagine that maybe your friend decided to start drinking and not tell you.
How long have you been friends with this person? How about your mutual friends? Have you asked them why you think he did this/why he's not talking to you? I know it sucks to try to involve other people, but just to bring it up casually would probably get some answers for you. I'd talk to the other friend who was there and find out what went down after you fell asleep. Maybe they stole something of your friend's and then acted like you did it, because they knew of your behavior pattern of crashing and leaving without saying anything. I am totally guessing at this point, because there's not much detail to go on.
I had a good friend, actually she was my best high school friend for 3 years all throughout high school and for several years afterward. We never really lost touch. Recently, when I got an account on Fb, I looked her up and Friend Requested her, sent her messages, the whole deal. Pretty much all my H.S. friends, acquaintances, heck, even former enemies accepted my request and we all Fb great, even reunited a few times - these are people I haven't seen or spoken to in years. Didn't hear a peep from her. Then saw she was active on other mutual friends's pages. I even said hi on a post that she left on one of their walls. She never, ever bothered to reply after I sent her numerous messages. I didn't take my own advice, but I just rescinded the request and pretended like she died.
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Not to suggest you are disingenuous, but it doesn't seem like the whole story is being told, so I can't really advise. The details that are being left out I would think would be important somehow.
Assuming you are being totally honest in that you do not drink and rarely get high, and that night you were totally lucid, (btw I believe you on all of this, pretty much)and reading through the comments, I can only imagine that maybe your friend decided to start drinking and not tell you.
How long have you been friends with this person? How about your mutual friends? Have you asked them why you think he did this/why he's not talking to you? I know it sucks to try to involve other people, but just to bring it up casually would probably get some answers for you. I'd talk to the other friend who was there and find out what went down after you fell asleep. Maybe they stole something of your friend's and then acted like you did it, because they knew of your behavior pattern of crashing and leaving without saying anything. I am totally guessing at this point, because there's not much detail to go on.
I had a good friend, actually she was my best high school friend for 3 years all throughout high school and for several years afterward. We never really lost touch. Recently, when I got an account on Fb, I looked her up and Friend Requested her, sent her messages, the whole deal. Pretty much all my H.S. friends, acquaintances, heck, even former enemies accepted my request and we all Fb great, even reunited a few times - these are people I haven't seen or spoken to in years. Didn't hear a peep from her. Then saw she was active on other mutual friends's pages. I even said hi on a post that she left on one of their walls. She never, ever bothered to reply after I sent her numerous messages. I didn't take my own advice, but I just rescinded the request and pretended like she died.