{if only he were to say something}

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Why don't men just say up front what it is they are looking for when they meet a woman instead of acting like they interested only to decided one day they aren't. Then begins the short awkward texts because conversions are a thing of the past.. Finally the out right silent treatment which I assume they just hope we get the hint and give up... I don't understand it..

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago | pl

    You haven't said anything about yourself.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago | pl

    Are you implying women say EXACTLY what they want then?

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  • ParaxMoni
    11 years ago | pl

    Just talk to him and ask him what's going on, its better to say something than not say anything and be paranoid about it

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    If he's not saying anything, you should.

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  • juss_sayin
    13 years ago | pl

    so I've decided to study this situation.. What I have found is men will keep a women at bay.. At least until he's certain his next option is really what he wants.. I mean are all men constantly looking for next best?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    The ugly truth, it's no lie unfortunately.

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  • marley56
    13 years ago | pl

    Because if we don't like you, some of us are nice enough to reject you up front. But I get your point.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago | pl

    Women are better at saying what they feel unfortunately. Some men find it hard but u may get lucky and find one that tells u straight up

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  • sowutdyagottasay
    13 years ago | pl

    flakiness is a bad sign, at the first instance save yourself the grief and stay away.

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  • *Cinnist*
    13 years ago | pl

    That happend to me a couple times. Then i ended up with the friend of that one person who was suddenly unintrested....turns out i was to abrasive, some men dont like strong in ur face kindof girls. Either its because they found somthing they dont like or because they found somthing better. why waste their time explaining it when they could just give you the silent treatment. Men suck. O well.

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