i read a quote once that said something about it's easier to get over someone when you hate them because the moment you forgive them, you start missing them. while this can be good for you in the short run, it may not be good for you in the long run. what happens if you hold onto that hate but end up running into him one day? old feelings come rushing back because you never dealt with them. mourn the loss, cry the tears, and go through all the motions. once you get that out of the way, start living life for you, the way that you want to, and God will place something good in your hands.
How do you completely get over someone you love?
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i read a quote once that said something about it's easier to get over someone when you hate them because the moment you forgive them, you start missing them. while this can be good for you in the short run, it may not be good for you in the long run. what happens if you hold onto that hate but end up running into him one day? old feelings come rushing back because you never dealt with them. mourn the loss, cry the tears, and go through all the motions. once you get that out of the way, start living life for you, the way that you want to, and God will place something good in your hands.