I heard the way to stop liking some one you don't want to be infatuated with was to find something/anything repulsive about them.
But when your in love, it's a a lot harder because you accept their flaws and repulsive or not, it's love, you know?.. Maybe you should take some time to realize that he's moved on and that maybe YOU should move on because you deserve better and he just wasn't the one. I still remember the guy I loved and I don't think I'll just STOP loving him because, like yours, he was decent guy and he made me into a better and happier person.
I think about him every now and then but reality always interrupts me and I decided that life can't be spent waiting on a guy that already decided that there's just someone else for him. Try to keep yourself a little busier then normal and keep your mind off by getting a hobby or volunteering, something that'll help get you up.
It'll take awhile and the love won't go away unless he screws you over and pisses you off somehow but It'll be worth it. Just my two cents. Good luck with life :)
I had a chat with my friend today which ease my mind a lot.It is hard to move on when i had feelings for someone for a long time,especially when i cannot talk to them face to face, in person,to try to work things out.I wondered lot of"what ifs.." but i think i deserve someone who will not fall at the first hurdel, or any setback we may have to face together in the future.
To see things more clearly and focus on myself, still lots of things in my life make me happy.
How do you completely get over someone you love?
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I heard the way to stop liking some one you don't want to be infatuated with was to find something/anything repulsive about them.
But when your in love, it's a a lot harder because you accept their flaws and repulsive or not, it's love, you know?.. Maybe you should take some time to realize that he's moved on and that maybe YOU should move on because you deserve better and he just wasn't the one. I still remember the guy I loved and I don't think I'll just STOP loving him because, like yours, he was decent guy and he made me into a better and happier person.
I think about him every now and then but reality always interrupts me and I decided that life can't be spent waiting on a guy that already decided that there's just someone else for him. Try to keep yourself a little busier then normal and keep your mind off by getting a hobby or volunteering, something that'll help get you up.
It'll take awhile and the love won't go away unless he screws you over and pisses you off somehow but It'll be worth it. Just my two cents. Good luck with life :)
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Hi, thanks a lot for writing this to me.
I had a chat with my friend today which ease my mind a lot.It is hard to move on when i had feelings for someone for a long time,especially when i cannot talk to them face to face, in person,to try to work things out.I wondered lot of"what ifs.." but i think i deserve someone who will not fall at the first hurdel, or any setback we may have to face together in the future.
To see things more clearly and focus on myself, still lots of things in my life make me happy.