It's easier to get over someone if you hate them honestly. Which for some people it's hard to do. I dunno. I hate every guy I've dated in the past. It was my way of getting over them.
i read a quote once that said something about it's easier to get over someone when you hate them because the moment you forgive them, you start missing them. while this can be good for you in the short run, it may not be good for you in the long run. what happens if you hold onto that hate but end up running into him one day? old feelings come rushing back because you never dealt with them. mourn the loss, cry the tears, and go through all the motions. once you get that out of the way, start living life for you, the way that you want to, and God will place something good in your hands.
Thanks for you comment.I dont hate him, i wished that i could hate him, to tell myself "he's a asshole, not worth it"it might be easy for me to move on.
But no, we had a good time, made me really happy, and yes,its his choice to break up with me, my heart is broken becasue of him, his been selfish to ask take me back while he didnt think things through, gave me hopes and rejected me again.
I think the truth is that he dont love me anymore, it could be with anyone as long as live in the same place, but not me.
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It's easier to get over someone if you hate them honestly. Which for some people it's hard to do. I dunno. I hate every guy I've dated in the past. It was my way of getting over them.
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i read a quote once that said something about it's easier to get over someone when you hate them because the moment you forgive them, you start missing them. while this can be good for you in the short run, it may not be good for you in the long run. what happens if you hold onto that hate but end up running into him one day? old feelings come rushing back because you never dealt with them. mourn the loss, cry the tears, and go through all the motions. once you get that out of the way, start living life for you, the way that you want to, and God will place something good in your hands.
Thanks for you comment.I dont hate him, i wished that i could hate him, to tell myself "he's a asshole, not worth it"it might be easy for me to move on.
But no, we had a good time, made me really happy, and yes,its his choice to break up with me, my heart is broken becasue of him, his been selfish to ask take me back while he didnt think things through, gave me hopes and rejected me again.
I think the truth is that he dont love me anymore, it could be with anyone as long as live in the same place, but not me.