I agree. You're arguing semantics now. You don't have to sleep with twenty guys to find the guy who loves you. Have a little self restraint and discipline. Didn't your parents teach you anything. I'm not saying shun every girl who has sex with a couple guys she doesn't date for a long time. I'm saying girls should just be more careful not to make that mistake too often.
and why would that be so? Why should girls be "more careful" not to make that mistake?
As far as i know, GUYS are the ones more prone to this kind of behaviour, there are even many that are PROUD of having slept with so-and-so many girls.
I am not even saying girls should act the same way(more=better), but why can't a girl with a high sex drive have intercourse with potential partners without being a slut?
As said, the fact that you don't care on intent(she is having sex with potential partners and wants a long-term engagement), but only on results(the guy "quit" after a week), and then have the NERVE to _JUDGE_ the girl based on that...if anything, you should judge the guys that "hit it and quit it", not the girls that run into them.
What, a whole generation of girls has to limit their sex drive because some guys out there are assholes?
Thats so incredibly sexist of you that i'm unsure if you take "sexist" as a compliment.
This isn't a guy vs girl thing, I find guys who try to rack up their "numbers" to be quite pathetic.
But obviously the playing field isn't equal which is why girls are held to a higher standard.
Why isn't the playing field equal? Well because it's obviously much easier for a female to find and have sex? Why is that? Because of the morals instilled in women since the beginning of time which is the only thing I'm arguing. That hardly makes me a sexist.
Don't take it personal, if you've got a high "number."
LOL - you haven't a clue how old I am. I don't even watch TV and I am way too old to watch the garbage that passes for TV these days.
Don't automatically assume stuff about me just because I think it's cool to get to know people before judging them on random stuff like numbers of sexual partners.
so "good" rolemodels have to teach girls to restrain their sexuality and ignore when their boys sleep around?
as for the assumption in regards to imitating jersey shore and bad girls club...i think it was you who said something along the lines of: "Once you start throwing insults around, you know you lost the discussion"...or it that only true if a girl does it, and works differently for guys, too?
^^^ This. I've never watched these programs myself, but I am quite sure a TV program has neither stopped a girl from staying a virgin nor caused one to have lots of sexual partners.
(Guys) How long would you wait for a girl to be willing to do it?
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I agree. You're arguing semantics now. You don't have to sleep with twenty guys to find the guy who loves you. Have a little self restraint and discipline. Didn't your parents teach you anything. I'm not saying shun every girl who has sex with a couple guys she doesn't date for a long time. I'm saying girls should just be more careful not to make that mistake too often.
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But she should be able to sleep with 20 guys if she wants to without being called names, is my point.
LOLZ - self-restraint and discipline to what end?
and why would that be so? Why should girls be "more careful" not to make that mistake?
As far as i know, GUYS are the ones more prone to this kind of behaviour, there are even many that are PROUD of having slept with so-and-so many girls.
I am not even saying girls should act the same way(more=better), but why can't a girl with a high sex drive have intercourse with potential partners without being a slut?
As said, the fact that you don't care on intent(she is having sex with potential partners and wants a long-term engagement), but only on results(the guy "quit" after a week), and then have the NERVE to _JUDGE_ the girl based on that...if anything, you should judge the guys that "hit it and quit it", not the girls that run into them.
What, a whole generation of girls has to limit their sex drive because some guys out there are assholes?
Thats so incredibly sexist of you that i'm unsure if you take "sexist" as a compliment.
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This isn't a guy vs girl thing, I find guys who try to rack up their "numbers" to be quite pathetic.
But obviously the playing field isn't equal which is why girls are held to a higher standard.
Why isn't the playing field equal? Well because it's obviously much easier for a female to find and have sex? Why is that? Because of the morals instilled in women since the beginning of time which is the only thing I'm arguing. That hardly makes me a sexist.
Don't take it personal, if you've got a high "number."
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Who "instilled morals into women" - sexist pigs?
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The parents. I'm sorry you didn't have good role models. Stop watching and imitating what you see on Jersey Shore or Bad Girls Club.
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LOL - you haven't a clue how old I am. I don't even watch TV and I am way too old to watch the garbage that passes for TV these days.
Don't automatically assume stuff about me just because I think it's cool to get to know people before judging them on random stuff like numbers of sexual partners.
"Morals" are very subjective anyway.....
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Either you've had a lot of sexual partners or are connected to someone(s) who do in some way.
Why else would you feel so strongly about this subject, and being pro-promiscuity.
It's gross, end of story. May as well go be a porn star if you're that hard up for sex, at least you can make some cash.
so "good" rolemodels have to teach girls to restrain their sexuality and ignore when their boys sleep around?
as for the assumption in regards to imitating jersey shore and bad girls club...i think it was you who said something along the lines of: "Once you start throwing insults around, you know you lost the discussion"...or it that only true if a girl does it, and works differently for guys, too?
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^^^ This. I've never watched these programs myself, but I am quite sure a TV program has neither stopped a girl from staying a virgin nor caused one to have lots of sexual partners.