(guys) how long would you wait for a girl to be willing to do it?

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As a girl i'm interested in how long would you guys be willing to wait for sex with a girl, before you dump her or go to another girl?

For the record: We assume a beautiful, nice girl and your normal dating behaiviour. If the "sex"-part works out, you'd be a great couple.(as in, there's no other problems involved that could have an influence on wether to stay with her or not).

How long will you accept to wait? For the topmost 5 answers, you MAY assume her to be a virgin, if that makes any difference.

If she wants to wait until marriage, thats fine! 21
Until she feels ready, even if that takes several years. 16
Up to a year is acceptable. 2
around 9 month is the limit. 5
half a year, at most! 4
2-3 month, not more. 4
at most a month, i have needs. 3
3 weeks, tops. 0
2 weeks is my limit. 2
If she doesn't "open up" in the first week, she's not a keeper. 2
Second time i meet her, i'll have expectations... 0
If there's no sex on the first date, i won't even call her- 3
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  • cocksuckerzunite
    12 years ago

    If she keeps you waiting that long, it means she's not really a sexual person. You may want to think about that when you marry her and find out she's not really into the whole thing at all.

    Don't be blackmailed by the pussy!

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    • Pepperoni_Sticks
      11 years ago

      Not everyone who waits isn't sexual. They just have a set point of morals they don't want to infringe on by being peer pressured into sex.

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  • Runaway
    12 years ago

    Actually very interested in this! It would also be fun to see the ages...

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  • misca
    12 years ago

    Around half a year I guess... Not sure. I have never been in a proper relationship, so I don't really know how I would behave in such a situation.

    Anyway, interesting poll.

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  • nobodyspecial
    12 years ago

    When i was 19 my gf and I got engaged, we were willing to wait till marriage, unfortunately that relationship didnt work out so never got to find out. I would say that if I really loved the girl I would wait till shes ready, but I definitely would try encouraging her

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  • ballparkdogg
    12 years ago

    I would wait until she was ready however long it took. I am 40 now and there is more important things besides sex. If I was 18 or 19 that would have been different. I am little wiser now...lol

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  • beastie
    12 years ago

    it better be the next thing she does after you say HELLO or else!

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  • trollbaby
    12 years ago

    I'm actually a girl but if a guy didn't do it after a few weeks of dating, I'd be worried he was hiding something. Like a tiny wang or something.

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    • Aleks85
      12 years ago

      I'm a guy and I think a girl who gives it up too quick comes off as trampy. Why? Some guys are just looking to hit it and quit it.

      Some people are ok with this, but to me, the more guys she's been with the less desirable she is to me.

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      • trollbaby
        12 years ago

        Some men are worried about too much comparison, I guess.

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        • Aleks85
          12 years ago

          Yeah that's a likely excuse. Or maybe it's just nasty to be where 100 other dicks have been before you (yes i'm exaggerating but you get the picture.

          No worries some men like sluts, which are coincidentally the same men that created them because they want easy sex.

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          • trollbaby
            12 years ago

            You might like a "slut" too if you didn't know how many partners she had. Then, when you found out, you'd lose interest. Which means you aren't really interested girls as people. You are more interested in judging her on her sex-life.

            Do you have names for men who have lots of partners?

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            • TerryVie
              12 years ago

              also exactly this.
              If you meet a girl, like her, get together, are a great couple, and she then tells you she was more of a wild thing a couple years ago, had many partners, she's now a nasty, dirty thing to be pushed away because you wouldn't want to be inside her after all those other dicks anymore.

              If you reduce a girls value to her sexual morals, you seem like a highly superficial person.

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            • HappyApple
              11 years ago

              a PLAYBOY. =p

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          • chewy
            12 years ago

            Girls want sex just as much as guys if not more but depends on the sexdrive also not everybody wants to be romantically involved to have sex and all the complications that may come with it.

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            • Aleks85
              12 years ago

              What "guys" are you talking about? Are you on a different planet than me? I don't want to have sex with many different partners. A high sex drive doesn't equate to desiring multiple partners.

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            • TerryVie
              12 years ago

              exactly this. why can't a girl have a high sex drive and wait for a short time only, without being called a slut.

              A slut, for me, is a girl that is not looking for a relationship, but rather changing sexual relations with many guys, One-night-stands, etc...

              If a girl meets a new guy, is horny and has sex with him after a week while hoping/expecting things will work out and they will become a couple, that doesn't cry "slut" to me. Why are man(mostly) being so unnecessarily harsh on girls?

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      • chewy
        12 years ago

        How is that trampy? So if a girl gives it too quick she is a slut? wow sounds like everyday society bullshit your point sucks.

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        • Aleks85
          12 years ago

          Congratulations, you just stated the definition of the word "slut." What else could the word mean?

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          • chewy
            12 years ago

            A slut is suppose to mean when a girl has many different sex partners not just one wow you are clueless freaking labels these days and incorrect definitions its called sex freedom see you are the reason why many girls have to turn down sex freedom because of close minded idiots like you.

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            • Aleks85
              12 years ago

              It's not "closed-minded" It's called "conservative." Some people actually value sex beyond that a mere physical pleasure, if you can't comprehend that you're much more closed-minded junior.

              And a girl who gives it up easily is likely to have many sexual partners, because she will run into the guys just lookin to hit it and quit it. And there are a lot of them out there.

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