I hide the fact that I'm bisexual for a couple of reasons: I'm pretty sure if my mom found out we would never have the same relationship (and I have a really strong relationship with my mom), and if the people I know found out they would either think I was an attention-seeking slut, or a confused lesbian. Lastly, if I dated a guy all he would be working toward is a hot three-some with another girl. Is it so hard to share actually EMOTIONS and COMMON INTERESTS with your partner before you jump into bed with them?? :(
This is literally me! Except the mum thing (mine would be fine) but there are so many misconceptions about bisexuality with a lot of people not thinking it's real which makes it hard for those of us who are genuinely attracted to both sexes.
Also, did you just ask WHY people are lesbian/bisexual? Haha, it's okay I did the same thing when I was confused, too. I'll give you the same answer I got, "I don't know, I just do." But I will also tell you HOW I know. I always knew from a young age (early elementary school) that I liked boys, but I also knew that I liked girls the same way, but I never told anyone. Now, I just imagine myself in a relationship with a boy (emotionally and physically) and with a girl (emotionally and physically). But not at the same time! Haha! I hope this helps you and anyone else that is confused. :)
(girls only) How many of you are gay or bisexual?
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I hide the fact that I'm bisexual for a couple of reasons: I'm pretty sure if my mom found out we would never have the same relationship (and I have a really strong relationship with my mom), and if the people I know found out they would either think I was an attention-seeking slut, or a confused lesbian. Lastly, if I dated a guy all he would be working toward is a hot three-some with another girl. Is it so hard to share actually EMOTIONS and COMMON INTERESTS with your partner before you jump into bed with them?? :(
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This is literally me! Except the mum thing (mine would be fine) but there are so many misconceptions about bisexuality with a lot of people not thinking it's real which makes it hard for those of us who are genuinely attracted to both sexes.
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Hey purple train, I'm purple flower :3
Sorry, kind of off topic, but I thought that was a funny coincidence ;)
Also, did you just ask WHY people are lesbian/bisexual? Haha, it's okay I did the same thing when I was confused, too. I'll give you the same answer I got, "I don't know, I just do." But I will also tell you HOW I know. I always knew from a young age (early elementary school) that I liked boys, but I also knew that I liked girls the same way, but I never told anyone. Now, I just imagine myself in a relationship with a boy (emotionally and physically) and with a girl (emotionally and physically). But not at the same time! Haha! I hope this helps you and anyone else that is confused. :)