17 yr old sister won't talk to me

im 19 and my sister is 17, we fight pretty often and in the past she has gone months without talking to me. but i really dont know what i did this time (besdies dating a guy she doesnt like) to make her not want to talk to me! its been a couple months now

she has said its bc ive stolen her clothes, "bullied" her when we were young, has called her names when we were little etc. the last time we were getting along was august. me and my boyfriend were at an angels game and he sent her a pic of us (she doesnt like him) and she replied back, "dont send me pictures" and got all mad bc she doesnt support are relationship.

ive tried to give her space but sometimes i try to talk to her and she just either ignores me or rolls her eyes or makes fun of me.

i hate this relationship we have rn but i dont know what to do bc she wont talk to me! any advice? shes going to therapy rn bc i guess shes going thru alot but like shes 17 and being so dramatic about everything... any advice on what i should do? thanks..

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Comments ( 10 )
  • Shackleford96

    Why did your boyfriend send her that picture. Seems suspicious.

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  • Ouch7

    She sounds like a manipulative bitch to me. Prolly a narcissist. Ignore the bitch. Ditch her.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Why doesn't she like your boyfriend?

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  • Mehereok1

    Give her some time and space. She's 17, sees 18 and "adulthood" around the corner (just like you probably did), and sees her sister on a better track than herself. She's afraid, and taking it out on you. Things will come around and get good again.

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  • Mike-Segacamp-Campbell

    She is being very disrespectful.

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    • So? OP said that her sister accused her of stealing her clothes and bullying.

      I don't think that her sister is handling this very well, but it's perfectly plausible that they're both pricks and OP has the disrespect coming.

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  • paracetamol

    Could be that she is jealous of your boyfriend

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    • why?

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      • paracetamol

        Because you have one and she doesn't.

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        • she does have one

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