20 years old, gay male, extremely insecure.

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So, I will just start off saying... I am currently 19, soon to be twenty (next month) and extremely insecure about myself: body, mind, personality, 'private areas'... I am just... Not sure what to do or how to meet someone of the gay orientation... I'm so inexperienced and self conscious and afraid of meeting people... In the past when trying to meet people, the guys are usually rude and blunt about how they feel toward me or the type of person I am... Which, turned me away from trying to find someone. I just wanted some advice on how to find someone or go about being confident with hat I have and not have to change myself for the mainstream gay style.. I like being who I am at the moment and I just wish to find someone whom accepts me, but with the constant butchering of my self esteem, I can't seem to break through it.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago | pl

    I have a bit of the same problem, but I'm bisexual. I'm very insecure about my body and who I am as a whole. At some point I would like to pursue a relationship, but I don't know how or where to start.

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  • virginfilth
    11 years ago | pl

    It's not your fault, gay people just suck. Maybe you're like me and have better luck with bi guys. IDK

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    It sounds like you haven't met the right person yet. You need someone who will nurture you and build you up a little. I'm sure he's out there, but you have to be out there too in order to meet him.

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