Honestly, I think it's sweet! I still have feelings for my first love and we broke up in 1990! Also it sounds like you have a good moral character. I've been married and divorced twice now and had more relationships than I care to recall and honestly it wasn't good for me emotionally and spiritually. Lots of relationships where there isn't any true love are a waste of time that could be better spent studying, hanging out with friends & family, having a good pet, exploring hobbies, traveling and working on a career. Nowadays it's considered socially acceptable to have lots of relationships that are more about sex and less about love. Take from an older Generation Xer chick who feels like she's wasted 20 years of her life. Quantity doesn't equal quality! If you love your girlfriend and feel she's the one take your time and let things happen naturally. If and when ya'll may end up breaking up enjoy the time you are single and take care of yourself and don't look for a new person to "fill the void". If ya'll breakup at some point don't get serious with anyone else til your over the relationship. When people get too close, too intimate, too fast with too many people it leads to depression, anxiety, co dependence, sex and love addiction, disease and unwanted pregnancy. You sound like a smart guy stay that way; just trust God and love yourself.
24 years old and only one girlfriend
← View full post
Honestly, I think it's sweet! I still have feelings for my first love and we broke up in 1990! Also it sounds like you have a good moral character. I've been married and divorced twice now and had more relationships than I care to recall and honestly it wasn't good for me emotionally and spiritually. Lots of relationships where there isn't any true love are a waste of time that could be better spent studying, hanging out with friends & family, having a good pet, exploring hobbies, traveling and working on a career. Nowadays it's considered socially acceptable to have lots of relationships that are more about sex and less about love. Take from an older Generation Xer chick who feels like she's wasted 20 years of her life. Quantity doesn't equal quality! If you love your girlfriend and feel she's the one take your time and let things happen naturally. If and when ya'll may end up breaking up enjoy the time you are single and take care of yourself and don't look for a new person to "fill the void". If ya'll breakup at some point don't get serious with anyone else til your over the relationship. When people get too close, too intimate, too fast with too many people it leads to depression, anxiety, co dependence, sex and love addiction, disease and unwanted pregnancy. You sound like a smart guy stay that way; just trust God and love yourself.