I'm 20 as well, and I've never been in a serious relationship. I have female friends and occasional crushes, but nothings ever developed because I haven't pushed for it to. I don't mean like force someone into something, I mean ask her out, be persistent with making plans with her, update her with your feelings for her (including your want to share in a lasting relationship). I haven't done this because I want to pick the right girl and therefore I am super picky and know exactly what I want and how to identify it. Anyways, those three things I said are the key (first step) once you find the right girl. Ok, well I hope this helps and you don't abuse it.
20 years old and never had a girlfriend.
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Hi James,
I'm 20 as well, and I've never been in a serious relationship. I have female friends and occasional crushes, but nothings ever developed because I haven't pushed for it to. I don't mean like force someone into something, I mean ask her out, be persistent with making plans with her, update her with your feelings for her (including your want to share in a lasting relationship). I haven't done this because I want to pick the right girl and therefore I am super picky and know exactly what I want and how to identify it. Anyways, those three things I said are the key (first step) once you find the right girl. Ok, well I hope this helps and you don't abuse it.
Best wishes,
Mike