46 year old woman with 21 year old guy?

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I am an unhappily married woman who is 46 years old. My husband and I are contemplating divorcing. We haven't had sex in months. I was goofing around online one day on Yahoo Chat and someone asked if I wanted to view their webcam. Unsure what this was, I said yes, and it was a young guy masterbating. He was very attractive and I was mesmorized with watching him. Well we have sort of become friends (although he is in another state) and are attracted to each other and contemplating a sexual relationship. I know he wouldn't be interested in anything but that, and since I am not even divorced yet, that is all I could offer anyways (btw, I have never cheated before so don't think I just do this all the time). Anyways, why would a very attractive guy want to have sex with someone like me? And is it crazy for us to even contemplate this? I must admit I feel very nervous about it since my body is far from a 21 year old girls body! Need some opinions please. Even if we waited til I divorced, is this crazy?

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  • lovetotasteyou
    13 years ago | pl

    well first off , leave your husband , dont cheat on him. then head off into the world of adventure and fun. Thinkng about cheating is not any different the doing it really if your at that stage then you need to move on. You will not forgive yourself if you cheat, but you can move on with your life if you dont anyways. good luck. one may even find the fire that you and your hubby had a while back. something to think about

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  • randypete
    12 years ago | pl

    a lot of young guys love older partners i lerent a lot when i was young from older ladies ome of them my freinds mums

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  • daveyjones05
    12 years ago | pl

    Just be careful if he's in another state and you've never met. If you definitely want to split from your husband, you could easily hook up with someone more local, or at least not too far away. Try adultfriendfinder or Craiglist. At least that way, you can set some parameters and trust me, there are loads of young guys who fantasise about sex or a relationship with an older woman. Not that you're old, just older than him. It might seem very appealing but the law of averages seems to work out that a woman looking for sex online can have her pick of men. If you were in a clothes store, you might not pick the first dress you see. Look at a few first before deciding which one to go for

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  • mandm
    13 years ago | pl

    I think I look ok...it's just hard for me to wrap my head around why a young guy is actually interested in someone my age! I'm glad, trust me, but just hard to understand! haha

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  • lovetotasteyou
    13 years ago | pl

    you say something about you, do you not think you have something to offer anyone, young or older. you say he is nice looking , but at one time IM sure your hubby was too and you were once a sexy sassy lady that turned him on. Older woman have alot of younger men wanting them , I have some true stories about that sort of thing from friends and myself when I was younger. so dont cut yourself short. you have lots to offer.

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